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[quote=GMScud;302763]I had an ex who thought she was pregnant about 5 weeks after we broke up. It was an ugly breakup, too. Then she calls me and tells me she took two pregnancy tests and that they were both positive, and she was keeping the baby no questions asked. I was 21 at the time, a full time student, and working as a waiter. I FREAKED THE F@%K OUT. Then she randomly called me a week later and told me it turns out she's not pregnant. I don't know if she was just messing with me in the first place (a psycho thing to do if she was), but for a week I was preparing for the fact that I was going to be a father. I know where you're coming from. Good thing it's looking like it's not yours.[/quote]

She was messing with you. Pregnancy tests are 99.9% (no lie) accurate. I made my wife take a second one when she showed me the first positive one and that one came out positive too. The chances that ONE test comes up wrong are next to impossible, but TWO is just ridiculous.

Stay away from that psycho woman.

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[quote=Buster;302826]She was messing with you. Pregnancy tests are 99.9% (no lie) accurate. I made my wife take a second one when she showed me the first positive one and that one came out positive too. The chances that ONE test comes up wrong are next to impossible, but TWO is just ridiculous.

Stay away from that psycho woman.[/quote]

Yeah, she is definitely a little off. We have mutual friends, but I hardly ever see or speak to her anymore. The incident in question was like 6 years ago, so it's long been over. Breaking up with that chick was one of the best things I've ever done.

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[quote=dmek25;302795]whats done is done. i really think you can get some sort of dna test before the baby comes. and if its yours, congrats. you are too young, but if it happens, try to make the best of a bad situation. do not take it out on the kid[/quote]

good news i think she says that it is not mine she says she is 100 percent sure so i really side stepped that land mine and no more sex for me until marriage


or maybe not even then

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;302917]good newa i think she says that it is not mine she says she is 100 percent sure so i really side stepped that land mine and no more sex for me until marriage


or maybe not even then[/quote]

Whoa, whoa, whoa, don't get too drastic! Just be a little bit for friggin carefull.

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I remember one time my ex girlfriend was scarfing down a plate of buffalo wings when she goes, you know, I might be the P word. I said....a pig?

False alarm, but once the scare had subsided she still remembered that comment.

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[quote=djnemo65;302958]I remember one time my ex girlfriend was scarfing down a plate of buffalo wings when she goes, you know, I might be the P word. I said....a pig?

False alarm, but once the scare had subsided she still remembered that comment.[/quote]

:food-smil

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You guys are freaking me out with this stuff!!! My son is 13....

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[quote=hesscl34;303316]You guys are freaking me out with this stuff!!! My son is 13....[/quote]

make sure he knows how to use a rubber

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[url=http://youtube.com/watch?v=OkEx8xJXPbI]YouTube - Condom or garbadgebag?[/url]

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[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGtWssdauME]YouTube - MAURY: YOU ARE NOT THE FATHER![/url]

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[QUOTE=hooskins;303325]make sure he knows how to use a rubber[/QUOTE]

Seriously; I'm sure you dont condone it at all, and its unlikley but its possible for some kids that age to be doing that. Trust me, lol were guys. Just make sure he has more info than what the schools say.

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Im a parent, well for the past 10 months anyways, but I thought these tshirts were hilarious. I mean we all need laughter...
[IMG]http://www.tshirthell.com/shirts/products/a499/a499_thumb.jpg[/IMG]
[IMG]http://www.tshirthell.com/shirts/products/a669/a669_thumb.jpg[/IMG]
[IMG]http://www.tshirthell.com/shirts/products/a365/a365_thumb.jpg[/IMG]
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[IMG]http://www.tshirthell.com/shirts/products/a289/a289_thumb.jpg[/IMG]

Well I think they are funny.

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[QUOTE=hesscl34;303316]You guys are freaking me out with this stuff!!! My son is 13....[/QUOTE]
Then you shouldn't be too worried; most teachers know to use birth control. ;)

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it is not my kid i am so happy i think but i really am relieved

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If it is not yours it is probably for the best. But if it is yours it is not the end of the world! I am 34 yrs old and knew some girls who got pregnant in high school and all everybody talked about is how they totally ****ed their life up. But what it seemed to do is make them become more responsible quicker as the rest of us proceeded to party away our 20's and not get anywhere. Now, my youngest kid is 3 yrs old so I will be 50 yrs old when she graduates high school. I look at some of my friends who started young and their kids are already 15/16 yrs old! In a couple of years they will be done (if u r ever really done) and still relatively young.

Another thing I wanted to relate to you is that I got my wife pregnant when we had only known each other for 6 weeks! and it was a long distance relationship at that....we were seeing each other only on the weekends so at that point we hardly knew each other. I was freaking out! But i look back now and know it was the best thing that ever happened to me. We have been together for over 7 years and he hardly even ever argue. I was a drunken bar hound when we met experimenting with all sorts of unhealthy substances. I had just had a DUI, my credit was ****ed up and i had absolutely no direction in my life whatsoever. Now, I make a good income, own a nice house and vehicles, have a beautiful family and I am loving life! It basically made me get my ass in gear.

Having kids is a blast, too! You will learn a whole new definition of the word love. Things like Christmas, Easter, Halloween, vacations, etc... are once again exciting. It helps you recapture some of the child like enthusiasm when you watch your children experience things for the first time ( I am taking my oldest to her first Skins game this year!)

I know things could have very easily not worked out so well for me but i still wanted to relate this to you so you understand that a lot of good can come of this also (hopefully, you didn't knock up a crazy bitch cause that could get ugly). The most important thing is that if it is yours you need to step up to the plate and be a man about it! Do the right thing!