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[quote=jamf;539779]Here is what you do:

Send her flowers at work. Women love flowers at work, It's proof to her coworkers that there is a person on earth that can stand her.

Go shopping for the items needed for the following advice.

Make her dinner with a quality bottle of wine.

Ask her about her day and mention that you think you would like her parents to move in with your guys when you guys start having kids.

Watch a nice romantic movie and kiss her lightly whenever they kiss in the movie.
Don't start fooling around! Tease her a little.

Walk her into the bedroom and tell her you want her to wear [URL="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/dw101xx.jpg"]This[/URL] and make passionate love to you.

If she refuses and runs for her life, You had a good woman and the problem is you.

If she nails you, You should kick her out and have her brother move in.[/quote]

NSFW Tag on that link??? LOL.

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[quote=Angry;539778]Edit (Just because I know LB is reading) At that point you sit her ass in the corner of the kitchen with a potato peeler, bag of potatoes, and a trash can.[/quote]
Definitely sig-worthy...

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[quote=jamf;539779]Here is what you do:

Send her flowers at work. Women love flowers at work, It's proof to her coworkers that there is a person on earth that can stand her.

Go shopping for the items needed for the following advice.

Make her dinner with a quality bottle of wine.

Ask her about her day and mention that you think you would like her parents to move in with your guys when you guys start having kids.

Watch a nice romantic movie and kiss her lightly whenever they kiss in the movie.
Don't start fooling around! Tease her a little.

Walk her into the bedroom and tell her you want her to wear [URL="http://www.extremerestraints.com/images/dw101xx.jpg"]This[/URL] and make passionate love to you.

If she refuses and runs for her life, You had a good woman and the problem is you.

If she nails you, You should kick her out and have her brother move in.[/quote]

She didn't ask him to do any of that

If you can't even ask her how she's doing, she needs to find her place in the relationship.. and I don't mean as a lesser, I mean as a respectful equal

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[quote=Lady Brave;539777]Riiiiight...

;)[/quote]

Is that why you don't post much anymore Lady B? Because of FRPLG's openly, and overtly hostile sexist attitude towards women?

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[quote=tryfuhl;539747]Man even that is letting a girl take you by the balls... It's your girl not your mom

no respect = no relationship

go sell her tires[/quote]

If they're 16" tires, I'll buy them at a reasonable price.

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[quote=Mattyk72;539713]In regard to the thread title... women can always get crazier. They have no limits.[/quote]

you think so huh Matty?

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[quote=olive523;539915]you think so huh Matty?[/quote]

uh oh...

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I'm no master at relationships, but I am in a very healthy one right now. And let me tell you, communication is numero uno in my opinion. Lay all your thoughts/feelings about your relationship on the table, ask her why she's acting the way she is... if you don't get straight answers or some sort of reciprocity as far as communication, then you probably need to rethink the whole deal.

Look EQ, I know you care for her, but you don't deserve to be treated like shit for being thoughtful. Besides, you're young, and you and I both know Gainesville is a gold mine for females. ;)

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i agree with the last post very much. communication [I]is [/I]the most important part of any relationship. women will say that they want to hear what you think, and then when you tell them, most of them flip out. I am in a constant search pattern for a woman that actually means it when she says she's wants to know what is going on in my head.

I am also a slouch when it comes to proper relationship management. I am breaking up with my girlfriend today actually because she's pressing on me like im a goddamn eclipse. I feel like im suffocating every time i want to change plans with short notice. It's more me than her, im sure. But so be it.

searching for the right one is nearly as fun as finding her.

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[quote=Monksdown;539919]i agree with the last post very much. communication [I]is [/I]the most important part of any relationship. women will say that they want to hear what you think, and then when you tell them, most of them flip out. I am in a constant search pattern for a woman that actually means it when she says she's wants to know what is going on in my head.

I am also a slouch when it comes to proper relationship management. I am breaking up with my girlfriend today actually because she's pressing on me like im a goddamn eclipse. I feel like im suffocating every time i want to change plans with short notice.[B] It's more me than her, im sure. But so be it. [/B]

searching for the right one is nearly as fun as finding her.[/quote]

Ahhh yes, the old, "it's not you it's me" approach. I've used that one before. Good luck tonight.

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[quote=FRPLG;539917]uh oh...[/quote]

Now we know who gave his Starbucks coffee thread one star :)

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[quote=olive523;539915]you think so huh Matty?[/quote]

You took the bait, so predictable ;)

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tough guy

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[quote=Hog1;539829]Is that why you don't post much anymore Lady B? Because of FRPLG's openly, and overtly hostile sexist attitude towards women?[/quote]
Nah... FRPLG's harmless.

I'm not sure you really want to know why I don't post very often anymore. It's irrelevant anyway. This thread is about EQ's lovelife and what's up with his moody girlfriend.

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[quote=Buster;539836]If they're 16" tires, I'll buy them at a reasonable price.[/quote]
hahahaha

I love this place

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Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;539955]Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.[/quote]

Wow. Well, hopefully everything is ok. I can totally understand her fear...but at the same time, she has to be able to tell you about these types of things. That's not something you hide.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;539955]Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.[/quote]

Wow. Well, I'd say that's more than a legit excuse for her short temper of late. Sheesh. I can't offer any advice other than don't worry until there is something to worry about. I wish her the best of luck. The good news is, god forbid it's the dreaded "c" word, SHANDS hospital in Gainesvillle is one of the best in the country. I'm sure she'll be fine. It doesn't sound like you have a hard time being kind and supportive, so just keep it up.

Keep us posted. In the meantime I'll keep you both in my prayers.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;539955]Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.[/quote]

:doh: I feel like an ass for what I said earlier... hopefully it's just a benign mass (pretty common I think). I'll be prayin.

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EQ, that sucks, I am sorry to hear that. I hope that it turns out to not be serious.

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Just echoing everyone here. prayers, and best wishes for both of you through this. Hopefully she will lean on your strength no matter what the news is.

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Thanks you guys I talked to the doctor last night and he said to try and keep her calm don't stress her out cause that can make it worse.

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[quote=tryfuhl;539943]hahahaha

I love this place[/quote]

I was serious. Getting the wife some new tires soon. :D

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;540007]Thanks you guys I talked to the doctor last night and he said to try and keep her calm don't stress her out cause that can make it worse.[/quote]

Wow, now we all feel like jerks. I hope everything turns out OK. You should use this as an opportunity to let her know she can (and should) tell you anything, that you're willing to listen and deal with anything with her. It's not an excuse to treat you bad, but it is very understandable...she was probably very scared and was afraid of the worst.









She can keep her tires.

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I felt a thread title edit was in order

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That sucks dude, hope things work out for the best. I find it troubling that she didn't feel comfortable to tell you what's going on.

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[quote=SmootSmack;540040]I felt a thread title edit was in order[/quote]


I do too. I feel like such an ass right now

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;539955]Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.[/quote]

Damn, who would have thought the Schneed would exhibit the best understanding of the female gender up in here? Not Schneed, I'll tell you that!

Sorry to hear that, man. The tendency to bottle stuff up isn't necessarily a male or female thing, either. It's just a personality thing, some people just tend to internalize this stuff. My wife does the same thing (maybe that's why my radar went up that something might be wrong). I have to coax her to talk. At first she's resistant, but I'm persistent without being pushy, and when she does eventually reluctantly talk it out she always feels better afterward.

Keep interested, read her moods, and ask her to talk about it when appropriate. It shows you care, and that's the best thing for her right now.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;539955]Apparently a few months ago she felt a bump on her chest and didnt want to tell me, then she got real sick for a while last month so she went to the doctor like 2 weeks ago and had some tests done on it and hasnt heard back yet. She said she has been scared and didnt want to tell me so she has been acting short with me so I wont worry.[/quote]

I am glad for you that there is no one else...I am very concerned about her situation and I wish you and her the best. I know there is very little that can upset a woman more than the possibility of breast cancer. It's certainly understandable she was short.
I'm glad you opened her up and got her to communicate with you. I said it in back to back posts on this thread...communication is always the key. If she comminucated with you about this months ago, then you would have understood and not had to write this thread. Hopefully this happening will help both of you learn to communicate better. Sometimes even in the worst of situations, there is a bright spot.
Good luck Quake...we will be praying for you. You can e-mail me to talk if you wish.

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Hey quake, hope all is well with your lady. Honestly, it may not be all that cool, though that she wouldn't feel close enough to let you deal with this with her, but whether that's a big deal or not is for you to decide, and there will be plenty of time for that later. Just offer comfort now.

best of luck...

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;540236]I do too. I feel like such an ass right now[/quote]

We're men!
It just sort of comes with the territory...............sometimes
-That ones for you Lady B.

Hey Quake,
Give us a bump when you know more ehhh? Good Luck to you

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There is something with her mood swing that does not quite compute. You would think that with a possibly serious medical condition, that she would not be so strong willed in asserting some kind of indepedence complex. I think that most people when facing something like what she is experiencing, would look to their partner for support, and not try to drive them away. You guys need to seriously keep open the lines of communication. You need to be her support element at all costs. Good luck pal.

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Thanks guys I will when I know more

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;540437]Thanks guys I will when I know more[/quote]

Anything new buddy?

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;540236]I do too. I feel like such an ass right now[/quote]

Whoa man, sympathy is one thing but don't blame her inability to communicate on yourself.

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Tomorrow we go to the doctor to get results I cant sleep right now I am just anxious

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I pray that you will get very good news today. Thoughts and support are with you both.

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EQ, what's the verdict buddy? I've had my fingers crossed for you guys all day.

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???????????

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Tests revealed no cancer but we have to go back for a follow up in 2 weeks. I am soooooooooooooooooooooo releaved