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[quote=CRedskinsRule;710984]The LIFE CYCLE Presented By OTM :D[/quote]

Well..... he's basically correct. I can't figure out the whole "18 and garnishing of wages" thing unless he's talking about college?

I had a discussion with my brother this weekend about how it's funny to hear 20 y/o's talking about working their butts off so they can retire at 40. lol. My fist thought was.... yeah nice thought, wait till they have kids, then it's all the school supplies, then it's a car, the insurance for the car, college, and god knows probably after college they will need cash here and there cause the market is not booming. My thought was, talk retirement all you want but you aint retiring. there will be too many bills later to retire.

EDIT: and I didn't even mention if they have girls they have to pay for the wedding. lol. I'm so glad I have boys. lol.

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[quote=SBXVII;711044]Well..... he's basically correct. I can't figure out the whole "18 and garnishing of wages" thing unless he's talking about college?

I had a discussion with my brother this weekend about how it's funny to hear 20 y/o's talking about working their butts off so they can retire at 40. lol. My fist thought was.... yeah nice thought, wait till they have kids, then it's all the school supplies, then it's a car, the insurance for the car, college, and god knows probably after college they will need cash here and there cause the market is not booming. My thought was, talk retirement all you want but you aint retiring. there will be too many bills later to retire.

EDIT: and I didn't even mention if they have girls they have to pay for the wedding. lol. I'm so glad I have boys. lol.[/quote]

Wait until they get their first big pay check and find that uncle sam feels he knows how to spend their money better and takes 1/3 of their check. Then all that feel ggod stuff they thought was so great does not seem so great anymore to about 1/2 of them. Then they find out when they retire that uncle sam wants to tax their income that they have already paid taxes on once before. Or that their SS that was going to help them retire was spent on sgl. mothers with 5 kids from five different dads and is now running out.

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My advice is F**k her. When you get done F***ing her, then F**k her again. Wash rinse repeat. You F**k her as many times as you possibly can before she leaves. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Screw all the rules about not wanting to get too attached or whatever. You are already losing her, why punish yourself even more? You ride that chick like the ride that is getting shut down at the amusement park.

When she is gone, then you move on. Until then you should be unloading white ink all over her splat tat. I don't care if she is seeing somebody else because unless he is going with her it is not serious and you were there first.

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Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.

Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!

So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.

Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.

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Her reason for wanting to maintain normal contact is that she considers this a special and unique friendship. I deflected to one of our mutual female friends and she said that I know her better and I'm always the first person she calls. She acknowledged that this is selfish on her part, but she's standing firm that this isn't fair.

Basically this all sounds like the dick in the glass routine by Chris Rock. Except I went from friend to lover and now back to friend.

Anyway, that's where things are for now. We're not going to speak unless we run into each other or it's a life changing decision she's making. We'll see.

To be continued...

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[quote=12thMan;711055]She was kicking and screaming bloody murder and said how I changed my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.[/quote]Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty :)

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[quote=Slingin Sammy 33;711062]Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty :)[/quote]

Except this is one of the first chicks that I've met that thinks like a guy. I do feel much better about completely shutting it down.

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I'm confused.

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[quote=firstdown;711065]I'm confused.[/quote]

Join the club.

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Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". You're right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?

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[quote=Angry;711068]Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". Your'e right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?[/quote]

I know? WTF?

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Yeah, color me completely confused. I'm with her, why in the world do you need a month or two off? What does that even mean? Why not just break up?

12th, you're starting to sound like a woman.

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This thread has entered the weird zone.

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I don't get it....you either bang til you hear a clang or bail before you fall off the rail. No dancing.

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[quote=Angry;711054]My advice is F**k her. When you get done F***ing her, then F**k her again. Wash rinse repeat. You F**k her as many times as you possibly can before she leaves. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Screw all the rules about not wanting to get too attached or whatever. You are already losing her, why punish yourself even more? [B]You ride that chick like the ride that is getting shut down at the amusement park. [/B]

When she is gone, then you move on. Until then you should be unloading white ink all over her splat tat. I don't care if she is seeing somebody else because unless he is going with her it is not serious and you were there first.[/quote]

LOL...Preach on brother Angry, preach on.

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[quote=Mattyk;711083]This thread has entered the weird zone.[/quote]


It may still pass the famous jasnro advice thread after all!!!!

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[quote=mredskins;711100]It may still pass the famous jasnro advice thread after all!!!![/quote]That jsarno thread was a complete mess, I don't think 12th can top that one. LOL.

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[quote=Slingin Sammy 33;711102]That jsarno thread was a complete mess, I don't think 12th can top that one. LOL.[/quote]

I miss jsarno. Whatever happened to him? Is he spending his time bending over some new woman so he doesn't have time for us anymore? :(

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[quote=12thMan;711055]Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.

Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!

So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.

Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.[/quote]
Well it sounds like she likes you a bit too but isn't in a rush to get serious.. either that or she just wants you around when it's convenient.

Never make somebody a priority if you are only an option to them. That may not fit in your case but you'll know if it does or doesn't. The whole limit to 2 days a week thing is kind of silly and childish though. I get your reasoning for it but I mean say you're both bored and there's something good to do but you've already used your 2 days up that week? It's not like it's a meal ticket broseidon. Just go with the flow and if it becomes too difficult just tell her you found somebody more in tune with yourself whether or not you have if you can't just break it off completely.

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Ok I don't have all day to read this thread again but let me try and figure this out.

You know this chick who was a friend who will probably be moving and you guys started having sex without having a relationship. After sometime you started to have feelings for her but she does not have the same feelings and wants to keep the relationship as it is. You want to cool down having sex and talking with her because of your feelings toward her and thats where it now stands. All this time you like her as a friend but now have these feeling but you know she is not the type you would marry.

Also for us to give you better advise we need a pic of her.

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Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

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[quote=firstdown;711168]ok i don't have all day to read this thread again but let me try and figure this out.

You know this chick who was a friend who will probably be moving and you guys started having sex without having a relationship. After sometime you started to have feelings for her but she does not have the same feelings and wants to keep the relationship as it is. You want to cool down having sex and talking with her because of your feelings toward her and thats where it now stands. All this time you like her as a friend but now have these feeling but you know she is not the type you would marry.

[b]also for us to give you better advise we need a pic of her.[/b][/quote]


togtfo!!!!!! Lol!

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[quote=12thMan;711334]Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.[/quote]


You are positive you are male?

This makes no sense at all. I think you just like playing mind games.

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[quote=mredskins;711337]You are positive you are male?

This makes no sense at all. I think you just like playing mind games.[/quote]

Well my manhood has been questioned from time to time. As far as mind games go, look, the whole thing is kind of messy. But I've been honest and real from the get, I just put on the brakes when I saw things moving in another direction. Truth is, if I wanted to play mind games I could have flipped out and said she shouldn't be seeing this guy because of my feelings.

Anyway, I hope this thread doesn't surpass Jsarno's insanity.

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[quote=12thMan;711338]Well my manhood has been questioned from time to time. As far as mind games go, look, the whole thing is kind of messy. But I've been honest and real from the get, I just put on the brakes when I saw things moving in another direction. Truth is, if I wanted to play mind games I could have flipped out and said she shouldn't be seeing this guy because of my feelings.

Anyway, I hope this thread doesn't surpass Jsarno's insanity.[/quote]


no worries I have probably had similar scenarios in my single days.

NOVA/DC area is a tough place to meet women, I have been there. Plenty to go around but if you not a high roller most will turn their nose up at you.

I do think PICS would make this thread so much better.

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No pics..you guys are funny!

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The reason why this thread will never surpass jsarno's:

If you posted pics of this girl, my jokes would be good natured. If jsarno posted pics of his girl, he would read my posts, close his browser, cry himself to sleep, and never look at his woman the same way again.

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[quote=Schneed10;711351]The reason why this thread will never surpass jsarno's:

If you posted pics of this girl, my jokes would be good natured. If jsarno posted pics of his girl, he would read my posts, close his browser, cry himself to sleep, and never look at his woman the same way again.[/quote]

The voice of reason. She's a hag, dude. Totally average looking chick.

And as I recall, you're the one that chased Hessy away!!

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Hess was about the worst member on here. She was just so awful.

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[quote=12thMan;711353]The voice of reason. She's a hag, dude. Totally average looking chick.

And as I recall, you're the one that chased Hessy away!![/quote]

Yes I was, and the Warpath community silently thanks me every day. Even if I CB'd you a lil bit. But it was for the greater good my man.

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Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

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[quote=12thMan;711357]Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.[/quote]

That one went to 11

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[quote=12thMan;711334]Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.[/quote]

So she is or is not still dating this new guy?

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I missed the part that she is now banging another dude.

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What a bunch of drama. Don't get your feelings caught up with a "friends w/ benefits" type of relationship. I really don't see why you can't be friends. I'm friends with a few women I've nailed. No big deal cause we both knew we weren't right for one another long term. I see you're in DC..I live across the bridge in Arlington. Just move on. There are so many beautiful professional women here that it's almost impossible to not meet someone else.

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To summarize, a man can't be friends with a chick he wants to bang and never settle for a tire when you're fishing for salmon.

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[quote=12thMan;711334]Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.[/quote]

so because she banged another guy for two weeks you can't go back to hitting it now? sounds like you feel betrayed or like you lost possession and it bothers you.. ill agree it's weird in those situations but treat it like a couch.. sink in and you'll feel good and not want to get back out