re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

Here is the one fault I have with the mom, is she put it on the internet and now the whole world is wrapped up in it when it could have been contained to their little world.

Too many parents now a days and it is mainly the moms at fault have to blog every second of their kids life it is sicken and unfair to the children who have no privacy.

re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mredskins;756482]Is it confirmed she is a single mom? Not that it matters just want to prove 1st Down is jumping to conclusions.


This is her user name:

Posted: November 2, 2010 by [B]Cop's Wife[/B] in [URL="http://en.wordpress.com/tag/bubbaboo/"]bubba/boo[/URL], [URL="http://en.wordpress.com/tag/deep-thoughts/"]deep thoughts[/URL], [URL="http://en.wordpress.com/tag/holidays-celebrations/"]holidays & celebrations[/URL], [URL="http://en.wordpress.com/tag/trials-tribulations/"]trials & tribulations[/URL]
[URL="http://nerdyapplebottom.com/2010/11/02/my-son-is-gay/#comments"]21,405[/URL][/quote]

If she is married then here husband is a pussyfoot for allowing her to take their son out dressed like a girl.

re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=firstdown;756485]If she is married then here husband is a pussyfoot for allowing her to take their son out dressed like a girl.[/quote]


Ok now you have gone pissed off the dad!


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re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mredskins;756487]Ok now you have gone pissed off the dad!


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The dad should have been pissed when mom dressed up the son.

re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=firstdown;756485]If she is married then here husband is a pussyfoot for allowing her to take their son out dressed like a girl.[/quote]

Pretty damn much !

I guess my true answer to the Threads Title is I'd STILL be cussing my wife out !

re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=ArtMonkDrillz;756471]Did you use this to come up with that post:

[IMG]http://www.thinkgeek.com/images/products/additional/large/office_space_kit_mat.jpg[/IMG][/quote]

That post I made was a joke.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mredskins;756484]Here is the one fault I have with the mom, is she put it on the internet and now the whole world is wrapped up in it when it could have been contained to their little world.

Too many parents now a days and it is mainly the moms at fault have to blog every second of their kids life it is sicken and unfair to the children who have no privacy.[/quote]

Preach. Good topic for the parking lot I suppose, but why'd she feel the need to blog about it? Guess it's just part of her "journal"

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=MonkFan4Life;756429]What if that was my son ?

It wouldn't be. Point blank. I love my little boy to death, but I was raised a certain way and my son will know what it for females and what is for males. Just not for me. I know this isn't on the same level but if my son started chewing with his mouth open I wouldn't say hey son go on and be who you want to be. I say, Bernard, chew with your mouth closed son. If my son said hey dad I want to dress up as Dora, I'd say no son, You can go as Diego because Dora is a girl and you are a boy. If my son wanted to wear a Redskins Cheerleader outfit either, you want some Skins gear you better rock this sweatsuit or a jersey. My son will be who he will be no matter what I do but as a parent it's my job to steer him in the best way possible as I see it. He, much like I did, will choose which way he wants to go. I wasn't raised to curse but I do. Wasn't raised to burn trees, but I have. Wasn't raised to drink, I just finished having 2 Remy's and a MGD.

As far as the mother, I can't say that I'm proud of her but that's her child and she can do whatever she wants when it comes to him. But if it's my boy, no chance.

And Schneed I agree with you, I would have had a field day with that little boy until he started crying and I got in trouble but I would've taken that L for real. Couldn't have pased up the chance to break out some new material on a little dude dressd as Daphne,....and he had the purple boot covers PLUS the handbag ?[/quote]

Agree 100%. Everybody's on this anti-bullying kick right now, but you can't fight human nature. As Schneed says, this is the way people enforce social norms. Yes, there have to be limits so that you don't see events like those of the last couple months happen, but overall, people need to be able to handle criticism if they choose to let their freak flag fly. It really seems like the overwhelming minority are trying to force a new set of rules on the rest of us with this bullshit. I look at that pic and think, that poor little boy, nobody's looking out for his best interest. The mom is clearly taking her skewed view of current events and is using her kid to make a statement. Her obvious predisposition to saying that her kid is gay is pretty indicative of that. If what she says is true, and that's a pretty big if, and this little boy requested to dress up like Daphne, guess what, you need to step up and suggest some alternatives and steer him away from a potentially harmful situation (in a non-traumatic way of course). He's five. Plenty of time for him later in life to get involved in political activism if he so chooses. Completely irresponsible parenting in my opinion.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

Who the hell cares what the kid wears? It's halloween for Christ's sake, its not like he dresses like this everyday. I know grown heterosexual men who go in drag for Halloween.

Sometimes I'm glad that the older generation will stroke out before mine, because some people are absolutely freaking ridiculous.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=Schneed10;756447]Buster you're a serious idiot. It's an established scientific fact that homosexuality is genetic.

Sometimes you do get a psychologically damaged person swinging one way or another, but by and large it's hardwired.[/quote]

Yeah, that post was the dumbest I've read in a while. Homosexuality is choice... LOL. One of my employees is the most flamboyantly gay man I have ever met in my life, and it's not even close. Not a snowball's chance in hell he just "decided" to be that way.

This thread has been a good read for me, as a recently married guy planning on trying to have kids in the near future. Thanks to all that have posted.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=firstdown;756508]That post I made was a joke.[/quote]Sorry, this thing is broken:

[IMG]http://www.sarcasmmeter.com/sarcasm_detector.jpg[/IMG]

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

Well, this is from 2008, but the researchers here seem to find that both environmental factors and genetics played a role in homosexuality.
[url=http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/06/080628205430.htm]Homosexual Behavior Largely Shaped By Genetics And Random Environmental Factors[/url]

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=DynamiteRave;756546]Who the hell cares what the kid wears? It's halloween for Christ's sake, its not like he dresses like this everyday. I know grown heterosexual men who go in drag for Halloween.

Sometimes I'm glad that the older generation will stroke out before mine, because some people are absolutely freaking ridiculous.[/quote]

I'll definitely second that. There have been been too many jackass responses in this thread for me to want to continue this conversation. Who gives a flying **** if the kid wants to wear a woman's costume on Halloween? I'd start getting concerned if he decided he wanted to wear that to school every day of the week.

And it's not the bullying I'm concerned about. As has been mentioned, that's the way it goes, you either suck it up, or do w/e you wanna do. I just want to know why all the other parents gotta get involved in somebody else's business. Would any of the parents here, on this message board, not get pissed if I told them how to raise their kid?

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

I would dress up with him. Wearing the exact same costume or a similar one.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mooby;756567]I'll definitely second that. There have been been too many jackass responses in this thread for me to want to continue this conversation. Who gives a flying **** if the kid wants to wear a woman's costume on Halloween? I'd start getting concerned if he decided he wanted to wear that to school every day of the week.

And it's not the bullying I'm concerned about. As has been mentioned, that's the way it goes, you either suck it up, or do w/e you wanna do. I just want to know why all the other parents gotta get involved in somebody else's business. Would any of the parents here, on this message board, not get pissed if I told them how to raise their kid?[/quote]

Yeah I'm on the same page as you. If I saw another parent make a face that my child noticed and consequently felt self-conscious, them's fightin words.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756435]I dressed up as Benjamin Franklin when I was 5...and now I fly kites in the rain, churn my own butter and run an apothecary

Well he did go as Daphne from Scooby Doo, and had dressed up as Scooby himself the previous couple of years

The kids weren't the issue, it was the moms who were saying stuff[/quote]

The woman claims her son is gay at age 5. This is beyond a costume, she's introducing and pushing the kid to make a choice he shouldn't even be considering for at least another decade, if ever at all.

I also agree with those asking where the father (or his influence) is. No matter what side you're on, the whole topic of sexual choices is completely inappropriate for a child this young. She's blatantly using her son to make some sick social statement.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

I told some of my friends who are fathers themselves about this thread and we eventually got to the question of how would we react if our sons had told us that they were gay. Or how we would feel if we found out, point is what would we do ? Would we accept it, condone it ? It was a fun conversation.

My son wants to be Superman now, I flew him around the house with his Redskins blanket around his neck for his cape. While this is going on I thought about the thread because I have to think. Would this little boy want to be Daphne if he had a clear representation of a man at home ? Or was he born with a gene that guarantees that he'll like guys ?

I just rearead my post and I have to edit it a bit. It's not a lock that he's gonna end up gay, but if he did is it because he was born that way or because there wasn't a man at home.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

She's not claiming her son is gay.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756949]She's not claiming her son is gay.[/quote]

She's pretty clearly putting that on the table, despite the fact that him being anything at this point is utter nonsense. Hell, the first words of her blog are "my son is gay." Point is, why put your kid on the f'ing internet dressed up as a drag queen where it will live forever? So, it was his choice to put on the Daphne costume, all questions of proprietry aside, you've now made this something the little guy has to live with forever. Meaning, when he's in high school, kids will still be bringing this up. Imagine he plays sports in school, you don't think opposing fans are going to have giant banners with that pic in the stands? Gay or straight, that shit is going to get old. Completely irresponsible of this woman, in my opinion.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

I don't agree with her decision to write anything about it in the first place. But she's not saying her son is gay...unless all you read is the headline

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756968]I don't agree with her decision to write anything about it in the first place. But she's not saying her son is gay...unless all you read is the headline[/quote]

Agreed. She says "My son is gay. Or he's not. I don't care, he's still my son."

Especially a bad idea to post the photo of the kid.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

there are two issues here the first she allowed her so nto dress as Daphne, IMO no big deal second issue she plasterd it all over the internet, IMO big deal, BleedBurgandy is totally correct on this part and SS.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756968]I don't agree with her decision to write anything about it in the first place. But she's not saying her son is gay...unless all you read is the headline[/quote]

Yes, I think my reading comprehension is to the point where I understood that. The point is, she's introducing the concept and it really doesn't have anything to do with the issue. Her typing the phrase "my son is gay" is a bad idea. If some random commenter wants to infer that, then that's just your typical internet trolling. If she wants to say, "my kid is 5 and wanted to dress up like Daphne, it's not a big deal, he's only 5," and there's no picture posted, I don't think you have near the outrage or attention that this has received. The whole thing comes off as if she's trying to use her kid for a little social activism. On it's face, that's disgusting.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

One thing for sure if he ever runs for office that picture will pop up the day before the election.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756949]She's not claiming her son is gay.[/quote]

:lol:

To quote the article's beginning:
[quote]
[U][B]MY SON IS GAY[/B][/U]

[I]Or he’s not.[/I][/quote]Bold, capitalized, underlined, clearly what she wanted to catch our attention, then a little disclaimer that maybe her billboarded point is not what she meant.

A mother who would post up those words in a public place (internet) for the whole world to see is clearly a questionable parent, so it wouldn't be a shock if this kid turns out mentally damaged and sexually confused.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=firstdown;757024]One thing for sure if he ever runs for office that picture will pop up the day before the election.[/quote]

Only if she's a Republican. Facts about Democrats get hidden until after they're in office. :cheeky-sm

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;756968]I don't agree with her decision to write anything about it in the first place. But she's not saying her son is gay...unless all you read is the headline[/quote]


OK, I'm starting a new thread.


[U]Title[/U]: [B]SMOOTSMACK IS GAY[/B]


[U] First post[/U]:

[I]"Or he's not.
<picture of you in pink polo shirt>
Discuss."[/I]




It's harmless, right? I never said you were.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=Buster;757227]:lol:

To quote the article's beginning:
Bold, capitalized, underlined, clearly what she wanted to catch our attention, then a little disclaimer that maybe her billboarded point is not what she meant.

A mother who would post up those words in a public place (internet) for the whole world to see is clearly a questionable parent, so it wouldn't be a shock if this kid turns out mentally damaged and sexually confused.[/quote]

Well, like I've said, if all you read is the headline then yeah you might think that all she's saying is her son is gay. But it's smart to never just read the headline. And, like I've said, I don't agree with her decision to even blog about this but I don't think this blog is going to lead him down a path of mental damage or sexual confusion

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;757233]Well, like I've said, if all you read is the headline then yeah you might think that all she's saying is her son is gay. But it's smart to never just read the headline. And, like I've said, I don't agree with her decision to even blog about this but I don't think this blog is going to lead him down a path of mental damage or sexual confusion[/quote]

[url=http://abcnews.go.com/US/gay-teen-suicide-sparks-debate/story?id=11788128]Fifth Gay Teen Suicide Sparks Debate - ABC News[/url]

[url=http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20019163-10391704.html]Schools Battle Suicide Surge, Anti-Gay Bullying - Health Blog - CBS News[/url]

[url=http://www.aolhealth.com/2010/10/12/gay-teen-suicide-surge/]The Surge in Gay Teen Suicide - AOL Health[/url]

[url=http://www.livescience.com/culture/gay-teen-suicide-epidemic-101008.html]Is There a Gay Teen Suicide Epidemic? | Homosexuality, Lesbian & Gay Teen Suicide, Sexual Orientation | LiveScience[/url]



Now here's the question...

Is this due to abuse, teasing and getting exposed as gay...or is it because homosexuality is actually a mental disorder with inherent emotional issues?

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=Buster;757234][url=http://abcnews.go.com/US/gay-teen-suicide-sparks-debate/story?id=11788128]Fifth Gay Teen Suicide Sparks Debate - ABC News[/url]

[url=http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20019163-10391704.html]Schools Battle Suicide Surge, Anti-Gay Bullying - Health Blog - CBS News[/url]

[url=http://www.aolhealth.com/2010/10/12/gay-teen-suicide-surge/]The Surge in Gay Teen Suicide - AOL Health[/url]

[url=http://www.livescience.com/culture/gay-teen-suicide-epidemic-101008.html]Is There a Gay Teen Suicide Epidemic? | Homosexuality, Lesbian & Gay Teen Suicide, Sexual Orientation | LiveScience[/url]



Now here's the question...

Is this due to abuse, teasing and getting exposed as gay...or is it because homosexuality is actually a mental disorder with inherent emotional issues?[/quote]

So now it's a mental disorder?

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=Buster;757234][URL="http://abcnews.go.com/US/gay-teen-suicide-sparks-debate/story?id=11788128"]Fifth Gay Teen Suicide Sparks Debate - ABC News[/URL]

[URL="http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20019163-10391704.html"]Schools Battle Suicide Surge, Anti-Gay Bullying - Health Blog - CBS News[/URL]

[URL="http://www.aolhealth.com/2010/10/12/gay-teen-suicide-surge/"]The Surge in Gay Teen Suicide - AOL Health[/URL]

[URL="http://www.livescience.com/culture/gay-teen-suicide-epidemic-101008.html"]Is There a Gay Teen Suicide Epidemic? | Homosexuality, Lesbian & Gay Teen Suicide, Sexual Orientation | LiveScience[/URL]



Now here's the question...

Is this due to abuse, teasing and getting exposed as gay...or is it because homosexuality is actually a mental disorder with inherent emotional issues?[/quote]


Maybe they are killing themselves because the people they love the most, their family, is not accepting them for who they are. Just saying.

I have learned to like you Buster outside of the political form, which I don't venture too, but you are clearly a homophobic. Why are you afraid them? They won't attack you. You don't have to watch their sexual act. So why does it bother you so much?

I am seriously asking I understand homosexuals better then I do homophobic people. Enlighten all of us on your fear of them...

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;757244]So now it's a mental disorder?[/quote]


Well lets see if we go into the reasoning of homophobic Buster; He originally said homosexuality is a choice but now says it is a mental disorder.

So using Homophobic Buster's reasoning:

[I][B]All Homosexuals have chosen to have a mental disorder. [/B][/I]


Makes perfect sense! Thank you Homophobic Buster.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mredskins;757265]Well lets see if we go into the reasoning of homophobic Buster; He originally said homosexuality is a choice but now says it is a mental disorder.
[/quote]

Correct, it IS one of those, could be a mix of both. One causing the other. :food-smil



Also, not "afraid" of them...just quite sick of their in-your-face tactics to get noticed, special rights and sympathy.

Also, if they're engaging in their affection in public, political correctness says we dare not tell them to stop...that would be "hate speech" and "discrimination".

They get away with FAR MORE than heterosexual, NORMAL people.




When was the last time you saw a Straight Pride parade? Or a straight "club"? The more they push, the less accepted they become.


Back to the topic....this woman KNOWS it's a controversial issue, ESPECIALLY with a young child involved, yet she knowingly disparaged her son online and started this whole mess, that will likely follow him for the rest of his life. One day in college, a fellow schoolmate from this class will run into him...and if they're not good friends, there's a good chance he'll be known as Daphne around campus. Thanks, Mom.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

Wait, so homosexuality is a mental disorder people choose to have? Is that right?

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=Buster;757288]Correct, it IS one of those, could be a mix of both. One causing the other. :food-smil



Also, not "afraid" of them...just quite sick of their in-your-face tactics to get noticed, special rights and sympathy.

Also, if they're engaging in their affection in public, political correctness says we dare not tell them to stop...that would be "hate speech" and "discrimination".

They get away with FAR MORE than heterosexual, NORMAL people.




[B]When was the last time you saw a Straight Pride parade? Or a straight "club"? The more they push, the less accepted they become.[/B][/quote]


Pretty much every parade is for "straight" people and the majority of clubs are for "straight".

Do you use this same reasoning when discussing blacks and whites? Seems it.

You should move to DC and see what it is like to live in multicultural environment, you might be surprised and learn something.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;757292]Wait, so homosexuality is a mental disorder people choose to have? Is that right?[/quote]

Political Correctness is a mental disorder for sure.



Love this place. Liberals can say the most idiotic things in the world and never get called for it...yet someone Conservative gets every word of every post dissected and threads are derailed to tear down the poster, right FD?

It's a football site, not a Presidential Debate. :cheeky-sm

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=SmootSmack;757292]Wait, so homosexuality is a mental disorder people choose to have? Is that right?[/quote]


Apparently, with the new technology of 2010 you can now choose what disorders that they have.

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=mredskins;757293]Pretty much every parade is for "straight" people and the majority of clubs are for "straight".

Do you use this same reasoning when discussing blacks and whites? Seems it.

You should move to DC and see what it is like to live in multicultural environment, you might be surprised and learn something.[/quote]
:pffff:

Yep, I have my "Straight Flag" sticker on my car for the Straight Parade every year.


Now I'm racist. The tolerant left strikes again! :goodjob:

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;757298]Apparently, with the new technology of 2010 you can now choose what disorders that they have.[/quote]

You CAN choose to act on urges.

It's a choice to take it up the butt. Definitely.

But, could those urges be the result of a mis-wired brain or psychological issue? Of course.

We call alcoholism a disease now. Yet, even with a chemical dependency present, it's the same lack of personal responsibility that pours the beer in their mouth and a choice is made every time to drive to that next bar.


Sorry for actually thinking things through instead of singing the same "awwww, they're different so we just have to hold hands and accept them" song you do. So they're minorities...that means we have to overlook all of the health risks and social decay they're causing? That mindset got us the current President. Acceptance of the bad just to avoid being called a racist, bigot or HOMOPHOBE.

I've known gay people. I've worked and lived fine with them as long as they keep their sex to themselves JUST LIKE I DO...as a normal, considerate person. No one normal wants to hear about someone else's sexual preferences.

Go ahead, keep calling people who don't see your things names. It won't prove you right or help your cause at all. Last Tuesday proved that. :food-smil

Re: What would you do if this was your son?
 

Buster, I think you are all alone on this one not even FD is backing you.