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[quote=jsarno;542102]That's good to know, thanks.

I have not met their biological father yet, and that doesn't appear to be in the immediate future, but i am sure it will happen at some point. I will have to put myself in his shoes when that does happen. I can only hope we can be civil.
What recommendations / advice do you have for me to help with my first encounter with the bio-father? What was good / bad in your experience?[/quote]

Its probably good that the two of you don't meet until things cool down a bit.It will take time for it to sink in that you are there and not going anywhere.
When you do meet I wouldn't say much at first and just try to gauge how he reacts to you.If he seems to be civil then go ahead and try to have the conversation about not trying to replace him.I would suggest doing this in person, face to face,not over the phone.It will carry more weight if he can look you in the eyes and know that you are telling him the truth.
Its obviously going to be awkward at first but it should get better with time.I was lucky in that he had already found someone new when we first met face to face.So once we had the conversation things really smoothed out and we were about as friendly with each other as two men in that situation could be.

Hope this helps and good luck.

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This thread is amazing and needs to be bumped. It's been over a year and newer members need to embrace the absolute hilarity of this thread.

Props to mredskins for making me legit laugh out loud.

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First you mention the "NET" which by itself is a sin against this site and then you go an dig up this disaster. Are you trying to start Armageddon?

On a side note I have actually driven through the valley of har məgiddô where it is prophesized that Armageddon would take place. I'm not much of the religous type any more but it was kinda freaky. For those who don't know Armageddon is not just a cool name for a movie. [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Armageddon]Armageddon - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia[/url]

Back to the subject at hand, this thread needs to be cast into Gehenna.

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I wonder what ending up happening? I think we need some closure.

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You want closure? The husband tracked him down killed him and fed him to the coyotees.

I am speculating of course but the last time he was on this site was 1 month ago.

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[quote=Mattyk;722224]I wonder what ending up happening? I think we need some closure.[/quote]

Ask JoeRedskin...didn't he go to San Diego and hang out with jsarno and Julia?

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whats happened to Jsarno? he hasnt posted since April

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[quote=htownskinfan;722290]whats happened to Jsarno? he hasnt posted since April[/quote]

I think this thread will give us some hints about his whereabouts...or should I say "wasabouts".

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I miss Jsarno

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[quote=htownskinfan;722290]whats happened to Jsarno? he hasnt posted since April[/quote]


He was last active 7/20/10 so he is not to far away.

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[quote=Mattyk;722224]I wonder what ending up happening? I think we need some closure.[/quote]

I'm sure the ending up happening was not pretty what ever the out come.

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[quote=firstdown;723380]I'm sure the ending up happening was not pretty what ever the out come.[/quote]

Hahaha....bro, is it too early for you?

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;722310]I miss Jsarno[/quote]

Awww, thanks buddy. I've missed a few of you too. What ever happened to your own discussion board?

Well, it has been a while, but here's an update.
Julia and I are engaged, although no date set because I don't want to stay in California...(and I was married for 12 years, so I'm not exactly eager to jumo back into that, I prefer to let some time go by.) Sure, San Diego weather is nice, but this place is just too expensive...especially with 2 kids. The kids adore me, and that's no surprise since their father really doesn't have a focus on them. He's always pawning them off, or ignoring them when they are around. The kids have had several injuries while with him, (including letting them play with a broke picture frame and both of them had to get stitches from the glass they were throwing at each other) but when they are with us, not a single injury. The girl is still tough for me. She is very head strong! But the boy is a blast. They both love me, but the boy hates it when I send him to his fathers house...he's begged me to stay. It breaks my heart to see him like that. I really wish the father would step it up and understand these kids love him even though they love me too.

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[quote=jsarno;728775]Awww, thanks buddy. I've missed a few of you too. What ever happened to your own discussion board?

Well, it has been a while, but here's an update.
Julia and I are engaged, although no date set because I don't want to stay in California...(and I was married for 12 years, so I'm not exactly eager to jumo back into that, I prefer to let some time go by.) Sure, San Diego weather is nice, but this place is just too expensive...especially with 2 kids. The kids adore me, and that's no surprise since their father really doesn't have a focus on them. He's always pawning them off, or ignoring them when they are around. The kids have had several injuries while with him, (including letting them play with a broke picture frame and both of them had to get stitches from the glass they were throwing at each other) but when they are with us, not a single injury. The girl is still tough for me. She is very head strong! But the boy is a blast. They both love me, but the boy hates it when I send him to his fathers house...he's begged me to stay. It breaks my heart to see him like that. I really wish the father would step it up and understand these kids love him even though they love me too.[/quote]

You do realize that the only reason anyone wants to hear from you is for entertainment purposes only?

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Oh my God! Here we go!

Welcome back, Jsarno!

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[quote=Schneed10;728845]You do realize that the only reason anyone wants to hear from you is for entertainment purposes only?[/quote]


That's not nice and it's not true.

Welcome back jsarno...good to hear you're enjoying yourself. Know that some of us are truly happy for you.

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Gotta admit, even though the banter in this thread was rather amusing and obtuse, I think Jsarno is a good dude and he's a Skin's fan! My favorite "Independent" :D Glad he's back for the new season. Well... Hopefully he's back and not just dropping in.

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[quote=saden1;728918]That's not nice and it's not true.

Welcome back jsarno...good to hear you're enjoying yourself. Know that some of us are truly happy for you.[/quote]

I'm happy [B]because[/B] of him. Everything he posts makes me laugh.

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How's the roulette book coming?

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[quote=DynamiteRave;728919]Gotta admit, even though the banter in this thread was rather amusing and obtuse, I think Jsarno is a good dude and he's a Skin's fan! My favorite "Independent" :D Glad he's back for the new season. Well... Hopefully he's back and not just dropping in.[/quote]

I should be back for a little while as I wait for surgery on my torn rotator cuff. I just didn't have the time before.
Looking forward to finally having a season with a competant QB at the helm!
Good to hear from you Drave, hope all is well.

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So Jsarno, I have a situation with this chick...

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[quote=saden1;728918]That's not nice and it's not true.

Welcome back jsarno...good to hear you're enjoying yourself. Know that some of us are truly happy for you.[/quote]

Thanks man, I appreciate it.
How is everything with you?

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[quote=12thMan;729158]So Jsarno, I have a situation with this chick...[/quote]

aaaaand?

[QUOTE=12thMan;729158]So Jsarno, I have a situation with this chick...[/QUOTE]

Dang I was expecting you to ask about a significant other you met on the web :D

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[quote=12thMan;729158]So Jsarno, I have a situation with this chick...[/quote]

Yeah right...a "chick"? Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure. :pffff:

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[quote=Buster;729247]Yeah right...a "chick"? Suuuuuuuuuuuuuuuure. :pffff:[/quote]

Buster, how's that little boo boo on your finger?

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So my EX fiance and I are talking again. She has provoked some feelings that I stil have for her. Should I stay with the mother of my children and remain medium in a not so romantic relationship or try and spark an old flame?

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oh lord

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HA HA! Just kidding.

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So what does medium mean?

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[quote=Angry;729991]So my EX fiance and I are talking again. She has provoked some feelings that I stil have for her. Should I stay with the mother of my children and remain medium in a not so romantic relationship or try and spark an old flame?[/quote]

I think you need to try to bring up the idea of a 3-way.

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[quote=DynamiteRave;730021]I think you need to try to bring up the idea of a 3-way.[/quote]


That is a SA-WEET idea. JK. She would never go for it though. LOL!

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[quote=12thMan;730019]So what does medium mean?[/quote]

Ask Jim Zorn, he was in my relationship until last December.

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[quote=Angry;730026]Ask Jim Zorn, he was in my relationship until last December.[/quote]

Haha...okay, so what did Zorn mean by it? And why aer we up at midnight talking about Jim Zorn?

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[quote=12thMan;730027]Haha...okay, so what did Zorn mean by it? And why aer we up at midnight talking about Jim Zorn?[/quote]

IDK, it seemed appropriate at the time...Drunk thread worthy joke I guess.

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[quote=12thMan;730019]So what does medium mean?[/quote]

it is the middle between well done and rare

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[quote=Angry;730025]That is a SA-WEET idea. JK. She would never go for it though. LOL![/quote]

Who, the ex-fiance or the wife? I say dump the one that's opposed.

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[quote=JoeRedskin;730037]Who, the ex-fiance or the wife? I say dump the one that's opposed.[/quote]


Considering that only one of them is real it would be stupid to dump her.

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[quote=Angry;730101]Considering that only one of them is real it would be stupid to dump her.[/quote]

What if u just dump stuff on her?

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[quote=12thMan;730027]Haha...okay, so what did Zorn mean by it? And why aer we up at midnight talking about Jim Zorn?[/quote]
Strange for 12th to be up that late and not talking about Buster.