sugardaddyforme.com
 

I'm just flat out disgusted that this crap is out there for the taking... and we women wonder why men are so willing and ready to cheat?!?!? Stupid, pathetic, insecure women like this make it as easy as 123...

check out the link - sugardaddyforme.com

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321732]I'm just flat out disgusted that this crap is out there for the taking... and we women wonder why men are so willing and ready to cheat?!?!? Stupid, pathetic, insecure women like this make it as easy as 123...

check out the link - sugardaddyforme.com[/quote]

"Nietzsche said that mankind would limp on through the twentieth century 'on the mere pittance' of the old decaying God-based moral codes. But then, in the twenty-first, would come a period more dreadful than the great wars, a time of 'the total eclipse of all values' (in The Will to Power ). This would also be a frantic period of 'revaluation,' in which people would try to find new systems of values to replace the osteoporotic skeletons of the old." - Tom Wolfe

It's only going to get worse.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

all worked up over some high priced hookers? hessy, every one has a price, some are just higher then others

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

I still think it is sick that it is so easy for men ....

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321740]I still think it is sick that it is so easy for men ....[/quote]

That site is terrible, but do you ever quit bitching about men?

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321740]I still think it is sick that it is so easy for men ....[/quote]

I'm afraid I didn't get that memo...

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321732]I'm just flat out disgusted that this crap is out there for the taking... and we women wonder why men are so willing and ready to cheat?!?!? Stupid, pathetic, insecure women like this make it as easy as 123...

check out the link - sugardaddyforme.com[/quote]
Hess... thanks for the tip... I will sign up this evening... and I am sure my wife will thank you....

:oink:

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321741]That site is terrible, but do you ever quit bitching about men?[/quote]

Oh, and you guys don't talk about women on this site? Thanks for the support buddy... I'm only just "talking".. as any person does when they want to vent. Don't take what I'm saying so damn personally. I just think it's disgusting and wanted to express it. From now on, I think I'll talk to my other friends if you guys can't just hear what I'm saying and chat about it without jumping all over me.... thanks anyway.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

Seems to me like the site is an equal opportunity offender, since it mentions Sugar Mommas as well.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

Yeah, well my whole point was that I was disgusted by the WOMEN... if you guys would read what I posted.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321748]Oh, and you guys don't talk about women on this site? Thanks for the support buddy... I'm only just "talking".. as any person does when they want to vent. Don't take what I'm saying so damn personally. I just think it's disgusting and wanted to express it. From now on, I think I'll talk to my other friends if you guys can't just hear what I'm saying and chat about it without jumping all over me.... thanks anyway.[/quote]

Haha you are just proving my point. Look we all have our problems with the opposite gender, but we don't vent by constantly complaining about them the majority of our posts.

Its cool, go ahead and do whatever you want, I am just pointing out what is obvious.

I know you are mad about the women, but in the end you are still upset at society or whatever and how it makes life so much easier for men and all that...

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

Guys arent going to just go looking for something else just for the hell of it. There has to be a significant reason why he is looking for something different. In other words what is it with you that is making him look elsewhere? It's not the popular answer, but its my answer.

Let me clarify a bit. Those skanks can put those web sites out there all they want, but a guy is not going to visit them just for the hell of it. Looking at porn is different, going to a site to get some is what Im refering to.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=angryssg;321754]Guys arent going to just go looking for something else just for the hell of it. There has to be a significant reason why he is looking for something different. In other words what is it with you that is making him look elsewhere? It's not the popular answer, but its my answer.[/quote]

I think that goes both ways too. If your women is looking for others, there is probably a reason why. Something is wrong with you. Even if she is a messed up person, something is still wrong with you since you are currently with that person. I am a big advocate of self-responsibility.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

I love this quote:

"I am so fun to be with, as this is very important in aspect of relationship as well, looking for that serious minded person who will be so fun... l will want and prefer us to talk sot hat you could really know about me..."

You mean I have to buy you stuff AND talk to you. Next.

"

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

I think saying I am ALWAYS complaining about men is VERY unfair. I say one or two things and you guys lose your shorts. You just get pissed when I say ANYTHING at all bad about men, but it shouldn't be that way. I listen to you all talk all day about women -bad, good, otherwise, and you don't see me slinging the shi+ at you every chance I get telling you to shut up. I'm hear to "chat" in the parking lot.. so why can't I chat about stupid crap that bothers me without being told to shut my female hole?

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[QUOTE=hesscl34;321757]I think saying I am ALWAYS complaining about men is VERY unfair. I say one or two things and you guys lose your shorts. You just get pissed when I say ANYTHING at all bad about men, but it shouldn't be that way. I listen to you all talk all day about women -bad, good, otherwise, and you don't see me slinging the shi+ at you every chance I get telling you to shut up. I'm hear to "chat" in the parking lot.. so why can't I chat about stupid crap that bothers me without being told to shut my female hole?[/QUOTE]

I guess I'm confused as to what exactly is bothering you quite honestly. It's that there are gold-digging women out there?

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321757]I think saying I am ALWAYS complaining about men is VERY unfair. I say one or two things and you guys lose your shorts. You just get pissed when I say ANYTHING at all bad about men, but it shouldn't be that way. I listen to you all talk all day about women -bad, good, otherwise, and you don't see me slinging the shi+ at you every chance I get telling you to shut up. I'm hear to "chat" in the parking lot.. so why can't I chat about stupid crap that bothers me without being told to shut my female hole?[/quote]

Well it's not "you guys", its me that is saying that you always complain about men. That is just my opinion. I just personally feel your thread is another attempt at lashing out at men and how society is messed up, in your opinion.

Look that is what I think, but its whatever I dont want to make this a long back and forth post thing.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321755]I think that goes both ways too. If your women is looking for others, there is probably a reason why. Something is wrong with you. Even if she is a messed up person, something is still wrong with you since you are currently with that person. I am a big advocate of self-responsibility.[/quote]

I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it. My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321760]I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. [B]You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it.[/B] My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.[/quote]

Well its partly your own fault that you would even be with a person that selfish. If you are in a perfect relationship and your love is soo strong, it shouldn't fall to some stupid website.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321759]Well it's not "you guys", its me that is saying that you always complain about men. That is just my opinion. I just personally feel your thread is another attempt at lashing out at men and how society is messed up, in your opinion.

Look that is what I think, but its whatever I dont want to make this a long back and forth post thing.[/quote]

If that's how you feel then PM me and attack me directly. Don't insult me on my thread just because you want to put me down in front of everyone else. Every single one of you speak yoru mind about everythign from music, to sex, to women, to family, to Paris Hilton, in the parking lot but you don't see me telling you to shut the hell up and keep it to yourself because I'm sick of your "bitching".

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=SmootSmack;321758]I guess I'm confused as to what exactly is bothering you quite honestly. It's that there are gold-digging women out there?[/quote]

Well, until hooskins had to make this about ME, all I was trying to say is that I think these kind of websites are a JOKE. I was trying to talk about the website, not about what I'M trying to say about men.... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! I thought it might even make for good comedy.. right up until I got shi+ slung at me. sheesh!

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

There are some interesting dynamics at work here. You could have a lot of fun deconstructing this exchange.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321764]Well, until hooskins had to make this about ME, all I was trying to say is that I think these kind of websites are a JOKE. I was trying to talk about the website, not about what I'M trying to say about men.... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! I thought it might even make for good comedy.. right up until I got shi+ slung at me. sheesh![/quote]


Why is ME in caps? Aren't YOU the one making this about YOU? Also I'M.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

I don't see what the problem is. Some young girls like nice things, some rich men like young girls. I think whether you are gay, a golddigger, a masochist, a family-oriented person, or whatever, who you date and why is your own business and I am not going to pass judgment on it.

Just don't date someone with values different than yours and you will be fine.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hesscl34;321760]I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it. My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.[/quote]

You are correct, those sites are wrong. The sad thing is that yes people will take advantage of them, however I do not totally agree with you. Not everyone will take advantage of them. I firmly believe that if you truly have a good relationship with your significant other that he or she will not stray. Just because you believe that your relationship is good does not necessarily mean that it is. The "cheater" for the lack of a better term, has some kind of void that he or she believes that can be filled by another. They include, but are not limited to physical attraction, romance, common intrest, attention, or plain old sexual desires.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

Whatever, just delete my thread. Pointless to even try to talk to you all.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[QUOTE=hesscl34;321769]Whatever, just delete my thread. Pointless to even try to talk to you all.[/QUOTE]

Why should we delete the thread? Seems to me like Angryssg and djnemo made some pretty strong statements in support of their own opinions on the matter, just like you have on yours. So why delete it?

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321761]Well its partly your own fault that you would even be with a person that selfish. If you are in a perfect relationship and your love is soo strong, it shouldn't fall to some stupid website.[/quote]

Honestly forget the personal attack from me and start from here. This is my opinion about the matter. I apologize for the attack, you are right I should have PMed you.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=SmootSmack;321773]Why should we delete the thread? Seems to me like Angryssg and djnemo made some pretty strong statements in support of their own opinions on the matter, just like you have on yours. So why delete it?[/quote]

Becuase if all you guys are going to do is make this about "why hess hates men" then forget about it and delete it. I was trying to discuss a website, not your hate for me! .. I'll pass.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[QUOTE=hesscl34;321778]Becuase if all you guys are going to do is make this about "why hess hates men" then forget about it and delete it. I was trying to discuss a website, not your hate for me! .. I'll pass.[/QUOTE]

"All you guys" ???

Come on. Now you're really just generalizing. Best I can tell the only one who "made it about you" was hooskins, who has since apologized

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321761]Well its partly your own fault that you would even be with a person that selfish. If you are in a perfect relationship and your love is soo strong, it shouldn't fall to some stupid website.[/quote]
Sorry hooskins, but I'd like you to make that same statement to my mother who tried her best to be the dutiful and faithful wife, but was cheated on by her husband who had no real reason to stray. He made a vow and didn't keep it. The responsibility lies with him.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

It isn't just hooskins that attacks me.. SCHNEED?!? I'm done with trying to talk to you guys about anything other than football, which should make most of you quite happy! Have fun with the thread.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=Lady Brave;321784]Sorry hooskins, but I'd like you to make that same statement to my mother who tried her best to be the dutiful and faithful wife, but was cheated on by her husband who had no real reason to stray. He made a vow and didn't keep it. The responsibility lies with him.[/quote]

Well dont you feel that your mother should have then moved away from someone who cheats? I am not trying to push to the absolutes, but I do feel you have some control over matters in your personal life.

In general I believe in destiny and a higher order, but I do feel your choices can and will have an impact on that. The same carries on with relationships. You cant just always put blame on others, because your actions can prevent things from happening. Just my personal way of thinking.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[QUOTE=hesscl34;321789]It isn't just hooskins that attacks me.. SCHNEED?!? I'm done with trying to talk to you guys about anything other than football, which should make most of you quite happy! Have fun with the thread.[/QUOTE]

Did Schneed even post on this thread?

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

I believe that people who would waste their time with sites like this one are in the minority. I'm currently single, and I wouldn't consider this. That certainly wouldn't change if I wasn't single.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[QUOTE=GhettoDogAllStars;321800]I believe that people who would waste their time with sites like this one are in the minority. I'm currently single, and I wouldn't consider this. That certainly wouldn't change if I wasn't single.[/QUOTE]

Haha, whatevever, with a name like Ghetto Dog you aren't getting any girls off that site. ;)

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=hooskins;321790]Well dont you feel that your mother should have then moved away from someone who cheats? I am not trying to push to the absolutes, but I do feel you have some control over matters in your personal life.

In general I believe in destiny and a higher order, but I do feel your choices can and will have an impact on that. The same carries on with relationships. You cant just always put blame on others, because your actions can prevent things from happening. Just my personal way of thinking.[/quote]
She did move away, my dad made that choice for her by leaving us. I guess I take issue with what you said about outside influences not being able to affect a relationship if it is really strong. My mother thought she had a strong relationship for the most part. No marriage is perfect. Funny thing is my dad always detested men who cheated on their wives. However, he made some very bad choices in his life and allowed temptation to ruin his family. He eventually became the thing he hated most.

On a side note, men are bombarded by sexual images everyday and I believe it can have affect. I have witnessed more marriages being ruined by a man's addiction to pornography than I care to count.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=GhettoDogAllStars;321800]I believe that people who would waste their time with sites like this one are in the minority. I'm currently single, and I wouldn't consider this. That certainly wouldn't change if I wasn't single.[/quote]


For the sake of argument, infidelity does not have to be related to a site. Whether its online or offline if you are looking for something else, chances are you will find it one way or another. The site provides a means for those who want to be discrete or lack social skills. I would think that you are one who does not have trouble finding partners, therefore this site is not appealing to you. With that said, those sites attract the people that they target.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=angryssg;321806]For the sake of argument, infidelity does not have to be related to a site. Whether its online or offline if you are looking for something else, chances are you will find it one way or another. The site provides a means for those who want to be discrete or lack social skills. I would think that you are one who does not have trouble finding partners, therefore this site is not appealing to you. With that said, those sites attract the people that they target.[/quote]
In other words, it attracts gold diggers and retards.

Re: sugardaddyforme.com
 

[quote=Lady Brave;321803]She did move away, my dad made that choice for her by leaving us. I guess I take issue with what you said about outside influences not being able to affect a relationship if it is really strong. My mother thought she had a strong relationship for the most part. No marriage is perfect. Funny thing is my dad always detested men who cheated on their wives. However, he made some very bad choices in his life and allowed temptation to ruin his family. He eventually became the thing he hated most.

On a side note, men are bombarded by sexual images everyday and I believe it can have affect. I have witnessed more marriages being ruined by a man's addiction to pornography than I care to count.[/quote]

I like porn, but that doesnt change my values toward my marriage or create a lust or a void that I feel that I need filled. I think that the deciding factor is if you watch it with your spouse or significant other then you are not at risk. It is when you try to hide it from them that you have an issue.