Was I in the Right here????
 

Ok last night I am driving around with my GF after going out to eat. I stop to get gas and there are these two guys sitting in front of the store and my girlfriend says she wants to get out to stretch, so she does, and the two guys start making comments. I get pissed but she tells me to ignore them so I do. Then we both walk in the gas station and as we are coming out they keep talking so I say "shut your mouth or I will shut it for you!" and the older guy (probably 23,24 years old the other guy looks like he is my age) he takes this as an invitation to grab her by the hand she stumbles and falls and scrapes her knee so I get even more pissed and I punch the guy twice and he falls and I hit him again and the owner calls the cops and I have to get my brother to come down and we sort the whole thing out. The cop ends up saying it was self-defense but now my bro is pissed at me I just want to know do you guys think I did the right thing or not?

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my bro is mad because he says i could of ended up in jail and i understand that but what would you guys have done?

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I would have done the same thing man.

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What kind of comments were they making?

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[quote=TheMalcolmConnection;389706]What kind of comments were they making?[/quote]


they were commenting her body and saying that she sucks a good........... I will leave it at that.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;389708]they were commenting her body and saying that she sucks a good........... I will leave it at that.[/quote]

Honestly, when people comment on my wife's body (and NOTHING else) I just grab that ass and show those fuckers what they ain't getting.

Now if they said some shit about sucking stuff, I'd get pissed, but I'd still know the one she's doing it to. ;)

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[quote=TheMalcolmConnection;389710]Honestly, when people comment on my wife's body (and NOTHING else) I just grab that ass and show those fuckers what they ain't getting.

Now if they said some shit about sucking stuff, I'd get pissed, but I'd still know the one she's doing it to. ;)[/quote]


i wasnt going to do anything until he grabbed her and she fell and scraped her knee that is when I wanted to put his head through a window

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;389708]they were commenting her body and saying that she sucks a good........... I will leave it at that.[/quote]

I don't see anything wrong with what you did. I might've gotten a bit more out of hand than you did, so I think you handled it very well.

My lady is a bartender, so douchebaggish comments are part of the territory. If I'm around and I hear them, it's a bit irritating, but she does a good job of communicating to them that she's not interested. But if someone made a comment about her sucking D... he'd be limping home with a broken jaw. And any guy causing physical harm to her will be lucky to even make it home...

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Say all the tuff guy stuff you want but if those punks are packing heat you and your lady are done. In today's world just let it ride, sure you are pissed but always concered the source when someone verbal attacks you.

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i agree. just keep walking with a grin:) like im the man shes with

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[quote=mredskins;389724]Say all the tuff guy stuff you want but if those punks are packing heat you and your lady are done. In today's world just let it ride, sure you are pissed but always concered the source when someone verbal attacks you.[/quote]


true the words i can deal with but when they grabbed her AND she fell all hell broke lose thats all i can say

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[quote=dmek25;389725]i agree. just keep walking with a grin:) like im the man shes with[/quote]


i will remember that for next time i guess it is a 18 year old reaction

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Ya, in this day and age you really need to be careful when confronting people that are clearly instigating trouble. I don't have issue that you popped that punk in the mouth, but you just need to be careful you don't get cut or capped when in the process of showing your manhood.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;389727]i will remember that for next time i guess it is a 18 year old reaction[/quote]


If I remeber your story right they didn't grab at her until you told them to shut their mouth.

Nothing makes them madder then when you simply do nothing, they are trying to get a reaction.

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[quote=mredskins;389730]If I remeber your story right they didn't grab at her until you told them to shut their mouth.

Nothing makes them madder then when you simply do nothing, they are trying to get a reaction.[/quote]


true maybe i did set them off in that aspect. but that still gave them no right but if i could do it again i dont know what i would do i probably wouldnt have said anything

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Id have punched my girl right in the mouth, and looked at them the whole time...


I mean, if you're willing to do that to her, just imagine what you could do to them... that way you only fight people you know you can beat up!

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[quote=canthetuna;389737]Id have punched my girl right in the mouth, and looked at them the whole time...


I mean, if you're willing to do that to her, just imagine what you could do to them... that way you only fight people you know you can beat up![/quote]


now that is funny so after i get out of jail what should I say to her?

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that's the thing... you won't have to say shit... you just give her that look...

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[quote=canthetuna;389740]that's the thing... you won't have to say shit... you just give her that look...[/quote ]


LOL! ok then when she cuts by nads off while I am sleeping then what do I do?

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[QUOTE=EARTHQUAKE2689;389741][quote=canthetuna;389740]that's the thing... you won't have to say shit... you just give her that look...[/quote ]


LOL! ok then when she cuts by nads off while I am sleeping then what do I do?[/QUOTE]

Just get them sewed back on John Wayne Bobbitt style and give her that look.

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In all honesty I would have probably kicked there asses too. Once someone lay's a hand on your lady you really almost have to do somthing.

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[QUOTE=EARTHQUAKE2689;389700]Ok last night I am driving around with my GF after going out to eat. I stop to get gas and there are these two guys sitting in front of the store and my girlfriend says she wants to get out to stretch, so she does, and the two guys start making comments. I get pissed but she tells me to ignore them so I do. Then we both walk in the gas station and as we are coming out they keep talking so I say "shut your mouth or I will shut it for you!" and the older guy (probably 23,24 years old the other guy looks like he is my age) he takes this as an invitation to grab her by the hand she stumbles and falls and scrapes her knee so I get even more pissed and I punch the guy twice and he falls and I hit him again and the owner calls the cops and I have to get my brother to come down and we sort the whole thing out. The cop ends up saying it was self-defense but now my bro is pissed at me I just want to know do you guys think I did the right thing or not?[/QUOTE]

Like someone else said, I would have grabbed my wife and laughed at them saying something like "this is alllll mine", and walked on. However, I 100% understand where you're coming from. It's hard to keep your cool in those cases. Just remember, if you need to beat on everyone that is an asshole, then you'd get into fights constantly. Just cause they are dumb doesn't mean you stoop to their level.
Although, I gotta say, NO ONE touches my wife.

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[quote=jsarno;389769]Like someone else said, I would have grabbed my wife and laughed at them saying something like "this is alllll mine", and walked on. However, I 100% understand where you're coming from. It's hard to keep your cool in those cases. Just remember, if you need to beat on everyone that is an asshole, then you'd get into fights constantly. Just cause they are dumb doesn't mean you stoop to their level.
Although, I gotta say, [B]NO ONE touches my wife[/B].[/quote]


except you but the only reason why i hit him is because he grabbed her and she fell.

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[QUOTE=EARTHQUAKE2689;389773]except you but the only reason why i hit him is because he grabbed her and she fell.[/QUOTE]

Like I said, 100% understand where you're coming from.

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[QUOTE=EARTHQUAKE2689;389773]except you [/quote]

Even then, not always. :D

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[quote=jsarno;389776]Even then, not always. :D[/quote]


yeah i know what you mean there

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[quote=jsarno;389774]Like I said, 100% understand where you're coming from.[/quote]


y older bro doesnt see it that way

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[quote=mredskins;389724]Say all the tuff guy stuff you want but if those punks are packing heat you and your lady are done. In today's world just let it ride, sure you are pissed but always concered the source when someone verbal attacks you.[/quote]

I guess it depends on where you live... I've been in a basically rural area most of my life, and I the only "trouble" I ever have to deal with is drunk rednecks. There are plenty of punk kids, but the ones where I'm from only run their mouths until someone calls them on it.

I'm interested to know where you live, that every kid that runs his mouth is packing heat. And I also find it hard to believe that if someone caused physical harm to your significant other, you'd just turn the other cheek.

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[QUOTE=mredskins;389724]Say all the tuff guy stuff you want but if those punks are packing heat you and your lady are done. In today's world just let it ride, sure you are pissed but always concered the source when someone verbal attacks you.[/QUOTE]

I concur

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i live in Gainesville for school but I am done for the semester so i was in charlotte NC when this happened and most people here cant even spell gun let alone use one.

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The question I ask everyone is if someone knocks over your wife or girlfriend is that where you draw the line and retailiate?

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;389905]The question I ask everyone is if someone knocks over your wife or girlfriend is that where you draw the line and retailiate?[/quote]

Apparently, the proper response is to say "Sorry we got in your way guys" and run away...

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You were right. You can never be in the wrong when protecting the woman you love.

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[quote=Buster;390602]You were right. You can never be in the wrong when protecting the woman you love.[/quote]


that is how i saw it but whatever

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I just want to echo the thoughts that you never know who you are messing with these days. That's the scary part. One of those guys could have had a weapon and things could have gotten out of control really quick.

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[quote=Mattyk72;390643]I just want to echo the thoughts that [B]you never know who you are messing with these days[/B]. That's the scary part. One of those guys could have had a weapon and things could have gotten out of control really quick.[/quote]

I'm pretty sure that even the people who are saying Quake was justified in his response realize that you should always consider that. But I still find it hard to believe that a grown man can just turn the other cheek and walk away when his wife/girlfriend is physically assaulted.

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I won't speak to what you should have done, as that must be tempered with good judgement, and not getting your ass capped, by some wannebe, wiseguy or worse. Your bro' was just worried bout you....nice to see.
Those............cretons deserved to have their asses tossed around the parking lot for a while!
Felt GOOD, didn't it?????

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Maybe she'll marry her hero now. ;)

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[quote=Hog1;390760]I won't speak to what you should have done, as that must be tempered with good judgement, and not getting your ass capped, by some wannebe, wiseguy or worse. Your bro' was just worried bout you....nice to see.
Those............cretons deserved to have their asses tossed around the parking lot for a while!
Felt GOOD, didn't it?????[/quote]


it kind of did but to be honest I kind of wanted to crack his skull on the pavement

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;390776]it kind of did but to be honest I kind of wanted to crack his skull on the pavement[/quote]

Been there..............life lessons