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Originally Posted by 12thMan
Suppose the guy wants closure, and the girl doesn't really give it to him? And furthermore, how do you know you've really gotten closure?
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Tricky question... if the "other" doesn't want to give closure, then i guess the person is screwed. And closure is probably different for everyone- the chicks i knew varied... some just wanted to get a last word in, some just wanted to make sure i knew how "terrible" i was as a person... the cool ones just want to make sure it wasn't an action or something weird that ended it.
When i need closure myself, it's more a "finality" thing to move on quicker. I'm not so sure what closure is for you, but you're probably there when you yourself are ready to trust the next gal (which means getting past all the insecurities and such from the previous relationship).