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Originally Posted by Lady Brave
Sorry hooskins, but I'd like you to make that same statement to my mother who tried her best to be the dutiful and faithful wife, but was cheated on by her husband who had no real reason to stray. He made a vow and didn't keep it. The responsibility lies with him.
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Well dont you feel that your mother should have then moved away from someone who cheats? I am not trying to push to the absolutes, but I do feel you have some control over matters in your personal life.
In general I believe in destiny and a higher order, but I do feel your choices can and will have an impact on that. The same carries on with relationships. You cant just always put blame on others, because your actions can prevent things from happening. Just my personal way of thinking.