GM hanging in there man! Every marriage in this world is different but one thing is consent is it takes work kids or no kids. I have been married 3 years; has very day been paradise, hell no but there has been more great days then bad days.
Listen to the song Love like Crazy
YouTube - Lee Brice- Love Like Crazy
So you don't end up like this country song:
YouTube - Highway 20 Ride
Sometimes life is like a country song!=)
Marriage and family is awesome but it takes work, hard work. I can remember my son was on his third night of being sick and we were up with him all night every night he was 16 months old and he looked at me at 3am or some ungodly hour and just gave me a huge unsolicited hug; number one highlight of my life right there.
If you only got married to get laid, probably doomed to fail.