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Originally Posted by 12thMan
Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.
Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!
So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.
She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.
So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.
Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.
Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.
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Well it sounds like she likes you a bit too but isn't in a rush to get serious.. either that or she just wants you around when it's convenient.
Never make somebody a priority if you are only an option to them. That may not fit in your case but you'll know if it does or doesn't. The whole limit to 2 days a week thing is kind of silly and childish though. I get your reasoning for it but I mean say you're both bored and there's something good to do but you've already used your 2 days up that week? It's not like it's a meal ticket broseidon. Just go with the flow and if it becomes too difficult just tell her you found somebody more in tune with yourself whether or not you have if you can't just break it off completely.