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Old 08-12-2010, 02:49 PM   #1
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Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

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Originally Posted by Schneed10 View Post
First, 32 days is a dry spell for sure, but too small a sample to make any drastic decisions.

The fact that she won't talk about it tells me something is wrong, like others have said. Possibilities:

- She's pregnant and isn't comfortable talking about it yet.
- She's sick with something serious.
- She's clinically depressed.
- She's mentally moving on from you. Sometimes you see people withdraw from their loved one if they've been presented an opportunity to be with someone else, and they're beginning to consider it.
- There's something else in her life causing a great deal of stress.

You gotta get her to talk about it. But come from a place of compassion, assume something is wrong and you're just looking to find out so you can help her through whatever it is.
I kind of thought this too. Are you questioning your feelings for HER too if you're talking about moving on after 32 days of no sex?
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