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Old 08-18-2010, 08:17 AM   #11
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Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

CR you are actually right. Or at least I think so. She know's that she's off now and that the HOV lane is open. The only thing is should you take it or just stay on themain highway. Let it be, don't try and let the day be what it is. IF asking for sex causes and issue why tempt fate ? I know that you should get it because it's what she signed on for whenyou all got married but you also signed on to deal with teh bullshit whenever it comes along. So let it go. Honestly I went for about 3 weeks without asking for sex and even when she felt that something was wrong and asked me for it I turned it down. Believe me it was hard but sooner or later she went ahead and rapped on the mic and I couldn't turn it down. You've got to play her game. She kept saying no so don;t try anymore. She'll come around. Like I said before,...PATIENCE is the key.
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