[over the mountain]

solid - come on buddy. we are all guys here, almost all of us over older than our mid 20s, some of us are married, some of us arent, some are divorced.

relationships at this stage in our lives are serious. you are still a young man in relative terms. this thing is going to take some time imo.

like credskins said, setting a date and time certain can lead to collosal failure and disappointment.

in my earlier post i wrote what works for me. my girl has her period every freeakin month and it is a brutal rollercoaster of emotion. trust me i know.

look at other guys posts on here. most guys in a committed relationship or marriage arent getting it like thay used to. its just the way it is.

like in my earlier post, id check to see if your schedules dont leave alot of random spontaneous sex time or if her schedule is to demanding and makes her dead tired when she sgets home.

idk man, but just hang in there. it sounds like something she has to figure out internally. the thought and your thread title of considering leaving your loved one b/c you arent getting any seems alil drastic to me.

your still a young guy, be thankful you found the one you love, so love her. there is a long road ahead for both of you.

dangit solid, i was hoping to come on here and read something positive. you cant force a solution, you cant force a decision with this. this takes its own time and route. my advice is to be there for your lady every step of the way, all the way. she is probably more confused and frustrated than you.