Monk that is one cute kid bro!!!
I am late to this party and I was not anywhere near as prepared as any of you guys to be honest. She was not planned and I do not know if given the current job status of myself and also my fiance that we would have been financially ready for sometime.
Since I lost my job, and the family tragedy from a few months ago that cost my fiance her job, this has been one of the most trying times of my enitre life. After having lived my last 10 years of my life as self centered as possible, be it partying, driving race cars with no disregard to the danger of the sport, and my pre economic turn down spending habits I was NOT READY for the surprise of my fiance telling me she was pregnant one day.
Smoot we do not have family "close" and we are not running back home. We are going to get through this rough patch, and to be honest I believe that God does not put anything onto your plate that you can't handle.
As of now I am sitting in the hospital and I have been holding my beautiful little girl all day, and there is nothing in the world that has given me this much joy.
My road has been unorthodoxed IE perfect job, married, lots of cash saved, big house, and to be honest that would make it all easier, but I am very smart and I know how to handle the finances we do have to be able to get by and keep a good credit score! Life will get better and little Adyson is just the first step.
Is this the great advice any of you are looking for... probably not, but I wasn't ready by any means, but this has been great. I love my fiance and my little baby girl with all my heart. I will provide, protect, and give them the best life possible. This has been the greatest day in alot of personal great days in my life.
BTW I am 32 and she is 25. Since you guys were all dropping ages.
