What to do, what to do

[beg8878]

I have a little situation and I wanted to see what my fellow die hard fans would do.....

I have a brother who lives out in California, pretty big 49ers fan. he is in town for a few days and being we live so close to Giants Stadium and the niners play the jets he wants to go to the game....he already recuited my father, who in turn wanted to make it a nice little family bonding and invite me...naturally, I declined, I cringed at the idea of not watching the skins, and had to hear the disappointment in there voices. Then it happened.....the phone call from mom, telling me that it would have been nice to go with them and blah blah blah adn that I can miss one skins game....

Somebody give me some encouraging words to guide me through this delicate situation