F... people at the gym

[BigSKINBauer]

Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

For those under 30, let me share how shame goes away. As life progresses one comes to a deeper understanding of the phrase "sh** happens". Slowly you realize that sh** happens to everyone, that it seems like there is big sh** and petty sh** and that life's too short to worry about the petty sh**, BUT (here's the big revelation) BECAUSE sh** happens all the time and to everyone, it is no big sh**. As a result, you no longer give a sh** about any of the truly petty sh**.

Or, from a more relational perspective: You don't like the fact that my sh** happens? Tough, it does, so deal with it. I have seen too much sh** in my life to worry whether or not you can handle my sh**. SO, when I am in a place where certain types of sh** is likely to happen, I am tired of worrying whether my sh** embarasses you, makes you uncomfortable or makes you wish sh** didn't happen. Too much big sh** has happened in my life to cause me to worry about your inability to deal with the petty sh** that always occurs.

More particular to this situation: If your in a place where certain types of petty sh** is likely to occur, get over yourself and stop worrying about the petty sh**. Your in a locker and you see my sh**? And it bothers you? Tough sh**. My sh** has seen more sh** than your sh** has ever even heard about and the sh** my sh** has seen would make your sh** shrivel up and stop its stink. Grow up and stop worrying about my sh** there's too much other real sh** to worry about.

Soon enough - the lesson of sh** will sink in for all of you. Then, and only then, will you be able let sh** happen.

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