What REALLY grinds your gears?

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Originally Posted by jsarno

I agree...it's all about give and take.
I think it's funny when someone that has been married less than 1 year tells me (married over 10 years) how to run my marriage. In fact, my brother has done that twice now...because I guess he didn't learn his lesson on his first marriage. haha.

Yup, I tell you what. I have one of the greatest wives in the whole world. The only thing we ever argue about is the hours that I work. Other than that we do not fight or try to restrict each other.

[jsarno]

Originally Posted by angryssg

Yup, I tell you what. I have one of the greatest wives in the whole world. The only thing we ever argue about is the hours that I work. Other than that we do not fight or try to restrict each other.

I'm the exact same way, and my wife is the exact same way. She wasn't bad when I had horrible hours when I was the manager of Chili's, but I knew it bothered her. It bothered me too.
We argue about 1or 2 times a year...for whatever reason we both understand what it means to give and take, and we both put the other person first.