advice needed...

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If her husband is violent why not just get proof and it would make things that much easier but I also believe that this is what she is telling you. I'm sorry but this whole thing does not really add up. You replied to SS that you have visted a few time and allready the kids cry when you leave after just a few times of meeting you? You also said her current husband does not find this strange and with a violent past this seems very odd that he does not get ticked over you visting with her. If she told him she was leaving and then you start showing up how can he not put two and two together?