advice needed...

[jsarno]

Originally Posted by love them hogs

Your situation is almost a mirror image of my life six years ago.With the exception that I wasn't married.I met my soul mate and lost her for many years until one day out of the blue she sent me an e-mail.She was married and had a two year old son.I had always loved her and wanted to be with her but had to give it up because it was just not ,and still isn't ,in my personality to cheat or mess with another mans wife.This man however was abusive so I just said f-it and called her to see what was up.

Anyways, long story short here I am six years later and we are still together and I am happier than any point in my life.We have since had a daughter together and I love our children equally.I dare anybody to say that he is not my son.I am his father in every way except biologically.

Basically I'm saying if you Know and I mean you Know that the two of you are Soulmates let nothing get between that.Especially not something as shallow as money.


Hope this helps.

That is GREAT to know. It's good to hear I am not the only one that went through this. In particular I am interested to hear how well adjusted (or not) the kids are? (well in your case, your son)