advice needed...

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Originally Posted by GMScud

I think you misread my post. I was referring to Julia's ex-husband being the biological father of the two children currently calling Jsarno "dad." I know Jsarno didn't have kids with his ex-wife.

I read your post again and now it makes more sense. I still have not seen the post where the kids are calling him dad but I did see where they are calling him pappi. As I said earlier I don't relate the word pappi with meaning dad but that could be because we live in different parts of the US. I personally just hope that when all is said and done that the best interest of the kids is what matters to all people involved. I'm guessing that at some point that will not happen to some degree.

[GMScud]

The only side I'm taking on this one is that of the children involved. A few people here are passing judgment about Jsarno's credibility and character. I'd rather not go that route. I don't know the man, but I understand mredskin's points about the inconsistent posts in the past. However, I have simply tried to give the best advice I can based on what I've been told.

Schneed10 makes great points on this one I think. Especially with regard to employment and parenting.

I guess for Jsarno you have to be careful what you ask for. The thread title is "advice needed." I suppose that doesn't mean you're going to like everything you hear.

I believe he has been given some good advice here, and I hope he heeds it.