advice needed...

[jsarno]

Originally Posted by firstdown

Not sure how her x feels at this time but I'd give it some time for him to cool down if thats needed and then I would give him a call. Tell him how you feel about not trying to take his place and all that stuff. I would also offer to let him tell you how he feels about whats going on and let him ask questions about you. If your up front about things and you make him comfortable talking with you things could go much smoother with the children. Its when people do not comunicate that things get worse instead of getting better. I would not be surprised if he tells you off but if you tell him you understand how he feels there is only so much he can say as you would feel the same way if thing where reverse.

When you said "call him", I was like WHHHHHAAAAAAT??? But after letting it absorb, it's sound advice. Thank you...I will have to try that at some point, but I am sure that won't happen for quite some time...it's still too fresh.