On Marriage

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by mredskins

Everyone is diffrent. The married life you describe in post #21 would have sent me to divorce court. I like my freedom and never could deal with my wife always having to know where I am. Neither is right or wrong just what works for you.

Exactly. Biggest thing here is to know thyself. Like if you're the kind of guy who still loves to go out to bars on weeknights and have the freedom to take off and do God knows what, then you should either refrain from having kids, or make sure the woman you're having said kids with is cool with taking on all of the responsibility.

If you go having kids without thinking about how it will affect the things you like to do, you're setting yourself up for depression and relationship complications when said unwanted change comes along.