understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by TheMalcolmConnection

Not to be a jerk, but have you thought of getting an iPhone?

Haha i saw that statistic today on a news article....if it helped, i would honestly buy one

[TheMalcolmConnection]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Haha i saw that statistic today on a news article....if it helped, i would honestly buy one

I have to give SmootSmack first dibs on that joke...

...that being said, I told my wife your problem on the way home a few minute ago and she said unless there is something SERIOUSLY wrong, just be open, give some space and things will come around.

Until that time, the internet will be your best friend...

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by TheMalcolmConnection

I have to give SmootSmack first dibs on that joke...

...that being said, I told my wife your problem on the way home a few minute ago and she said unless there is something SERIOUSLY wrong, just be open, give some space and things will come around.

Until that time, the internet will be your best friend...

That's probably the biggest thing. Those rare times that Senora Smack is less than interested I used to get all frustrated with her. Like my pride was on the line "I put a ring on your finger and now you don't want this?!" But I've since learned to be more "understanding" "Take all the time you need honey, I'm not going anywhere" I've started to learn all her non-verbal behavior too. 'Cause often times she'd be like tonight it's you and me! And I'd be all like that's what's up! Only to find out it was all talk by the time the evening rolled around.

But one thing I've learned, when guys are upset and frustrated usually the best release is to hit something or to hit something (if you know what I mean). For women, it's unfortunately not always the same.

Anyhow Snake, as has been said here you need to talk to her but not in a Mel Gibson-"you better blow!!!!! me" kind of way

[TheMalcolmConnection]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

That's probably the biggest thing. Those rare times that Senora Smack is less than interested I used to get all frustrated with her. Like my pride was on the line "I put a ring on your finger and now you don't want this?!" But I've since learned to be more "understanding" "Take all the time you need honey, I'm not going anywhere" I've started to learn all her non-verbal behavior too. 'Cause often times she'd be like tonight it's you and me! And I'd be all like that's what's up! Only to find out it was all talk by the time the evening rolled around.

But one thing I've learned, when guys are upset and frustrated usually the best release is to hit something or to hit something (if you know what I mean). For women, it's unfortunately not always the same.

Anyhow Snake, as has been said here you need to talk to her but not in a Mel Gibson-"you better blow!!!!! me" kind of way

DUDE. I'm not hijacking this at all, but that makes me want to flip my shit. I don't mind not getting a piece, but don't get my hopes up.

[tryfuhl]

Originally Posted by TheMalcolmConnection

DUDE. I'm not hijacking this at all, but that makes me want to flip my shit. I don't mind not getting a piece, but don't get my hopes up.

seriously... don't mention shit you're not going to do

imagine if you said I'd like to go to blah blah restaurant and then are like tonight isn't good, she'd prob flip her shit

on a bday the girl I was dating said she wasn't going to give me any after I said I wanted my 2nd part of my presents.. it took her 4 freaking hours to say it was the day she was SUPPOSED to go on her period as an excuse instead of telling me to begin with.. well she rarely got period symptoms on her BC.. I just ignored her all day, she came over and gave it to me proper