understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[SolidSnake84]

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

[firstdown]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

So you guys took 2 min having sex and 35 min. talking about it. Seems about right.

[TheMalcolmConnection]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

Awesome. At least you both got it out in the open and know it's both people have work to do.

You got some. I'm so happy for you...