F....Cigarettes

[jsarno]

Originally Posted by saden1

Don't smoke around my kids or you won't be around my kids. It is a simple request and a simple response to the denial of you request. The choice is theirs and whatever they choose your kid's health problems will be solved.

I 100% agee.
There are points in your life that you need to stand up to people. Whether it be your parents, your teacher, your in laws, a bully...whatever. This is a no brainer, you either stand up to your in laws and demand they stop smoking around them, or you will take him away from them. This may not be taken with a grain of salt, but you need to draw the line in the sand. If they truly love your son, they will comply.