The Relationships Thread

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Originally Posted by ArtMonkDrillz

Outstanding. Tomorrow night I'm going to dinner with a girl that I was just set up with, I think I need to find a way to 'demonstrate value.' Any thoughts?

Be yourself. Be honest and share your goals and plan to get there if you aren't already there. Don't talk about who you know, what you have or any of the like.


That establishes "high value" you are seeking.

ps. make the meetup casual (nothing fancy). Even if it's just a meetup at a coffee shop.

One of the best things I have done was take a girl to a Barnes and Noble, and tell her if she could only read one book in that entire store, what would it be? Have her search it out. It will tell you a lot about her. If she picks the Bible...end the date immediately ...