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[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I think saying I am ALWAYS complaining about men is VERY unfair. I say one or two things and you guys lose your shorts. You just get pissed when I say ANYTHING at all bad about men, but it shouldn't be that way. I listen to you all talk all day about women -bad, good, otherwise, and you don't see me slinging the shi+ at you every chance I get telling you to shut up. I'm hear to "chat" in the parking lot.. so why can't I chat about stupid crap that bothers me without being told to shut my female hole?

I guess I'm confused as to what exactly is bothering you quite honestly. It's that there are gold-digging women out there?

[hooskins]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I think saying I am ALWAYS complaining about men is VERY unfair. I say one or two things and you guys lose your shorts. You just get pissed when I say ANYTHING at all bad about men, but it shouldn't be that way. I listen to you all talk all day about women -bad, good, otherwise, and you don't see me slinging the shi+ at you every chance I get telling you to shut up. I'm hear to "chat" in the parking lot.. so why can't I chat about stupid crap that bothers me without being told to shut my female hole?

Well it's not "you guys", its me that is saying that you always complain about men. That is just my opinion. I just personally feel your thread is another attempt at lashing out at men and how society is messed up, in your opinion.

Look that is what I think, but its whatever I dont want to make this a long back and forth post thing.

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by hooskins

I think that goes both ways too. If your women is looking for others, there is probably a reason why. Something is wrong with you. Even if she is a messed up person, something is still wrong with you since you are currently with that person. I am a big advocate of self-responsibility.

I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it. My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.

[hooskins]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it. My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.

Well its partly your own fault that you would even be with a person that selfish. If you are in a perfect relationship and your love is soo strong, it shouldn't fall to some stupid website.

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by hooskins

Well it's not "you guys", its me that is saying that you always complain about men. That is just my opinion. I just personally feel your thread is another attempt at lashing out at men and how society is messed up, in your opinion.

Look that is what I think, but its whatever I dont want to make this a long back and forth post thing.

If that's how you feel then PM me and attack me directly. Don't insult me on my thread just because you want to put me down in front of everyone else. Every single one of you speak yoru mind about everythign from music, to sex, to women, to family, to Paris Hilton, in the parking lot but you don't see me telling you to shut the hell up and keep it to yourself because I'm sick of your "bitching".

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

I guess I'm confused as to what exactly is bothering you quite honestly. It's that there are gold-digging women out there?

Well, until hooskins had to make this about ME, all I was trying to say is that I think these kind of websites are a JOKE. I was trying to talk about the website, not about what I'M trying to say about men.... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! I thought it might even make for good comedy.. right up until I got shi+ slung at me. sheesh!

[70Chip]

There are some interesting dynamics at work here. You could have a lot of fun deconstructing this exchange.

[70Chip]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

Well, until hooskins had to make this about ME, all I was trying to say is that I think these kind of websites are a JOKE. I was trying to talk about the website, not about what I'M trying to say about men.... FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! I thought it might even make for good comedy.. right up until I got shi+ slung at me. sheesh!

Why is ME in caps? Aren't YOU the one making this about YOU? Also I'M.

[djnemo65]

I don't see what the problem is. Some young girls like nice things, some rich men like young girls. I think whether you are gay, a golddigger, a masochist, a family-oriented person, or whatever, who you date and why is your own business and I am not going to pass judgment on it.

Just don't date someone with values different than yours and you will be fine.

[KLHJ2]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I think you are very naive to think that people don't just do what they want regardless of another person feelings. You can have the perfect relationship but if something like this is put in front of you there are plenty of people who are selfish enough to grab it. My whole point with this thread is that I think websites like this are a joke, disgusting, and wrong. But you have to make it about ME or others problems.

You are correct, those sites are wrong. The sad thing is that yes people will take advantage of them, however I do not totally agree with you. Not everyone will take advantage of them. I firmly believe that if you truly have a good relationship with your significant other that he or she will not stray. Just because you believe that your relationship is good does not necessarily mean that it is. The "cheater" for the lack of a better term, has some kind of void that he or she believes that can be filled by another. They include, but are not limited to physical attraction, romance, common intrest, attention, or plain old sexual desires.

[hesscl34]

Whatever, just delete my thread. Pointless to even try to talk to you all.

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

Whatever, just delete my thread. Pointless to even try to talk to you all.

Why should we delete the thread? Seems to me like Angryssg and djnemo made some pretty strong statements in support of their own opinions on the matter, just like you have on yours. So why delete it?

[hooskins]

Originally Posted by hooskins

Well its partly your own fault that you would even be with a person that selfish. If you are in a perfect relationship and your love is soo strong, it shouldn't fall to some stupid website.

Honestly forget the personal attack from me and start from here. This is my opinion about the matter. I apologize for the attack, you are right I should have PMed you.

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Why should we delete the thread? Seems to me like Angryssg and djnemo made some pretty strong statements in support of their own opinions on the matter, just like you have on yours. So why delete it?

Becuase if all you guys are going to do is make this about "why hess hates men" then forget about it and delete it. I was trying to discuss a website, not your hate for me! .. I'll pass.

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

Becuase if all you guys are going to do is make this about "why hess hates men" then forget about it and delete it. I was trying to discuss a website, not your hate for me! .. I'll pass.

"All you guys" ???

Come on. Now you're really just generalizing. Best I can tell the only one who "made it about you" was hooskins, who has since apologized