What is the worst thing you've ever done

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 03:33 PM

oh, and I've faked it of course.... Every woman has done that, and feels a little guilty...

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 03:46 PM

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Originally Posted by hesscl34

oh, and I've faked it of course.... Every woman has done that, and feels a little guilty...

guys have too

jbcjr14 · 05-17-2007, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

guys have too

Only after many hours of drinking copius amounts of beverages that contain alcohol!

JoeRedskin · 05-17-2007, 04:02 PM

Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did?

Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part...

That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again.

My only defense is that I was much younger then.

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did?

Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part...

That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again.

My only defense is that I was much younger then.

No defense needed. You're my friggin hero.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 04:04 PM

Wow. <speechless> .. and I threw up a little.

JoeRedskin · 05-17-2007, 04:09 PM

Yeah, it was pretty shitty. I am a much better person these days. I only cheat on my wife on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the occasional Saturday morning.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 04:14 PM

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

dont you just love men hess

Southpaw · 05-17-2007, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It might be easier for women to figure out who the nice guys are if they didn't hand the poon to any douchebag that gives them 30 seconds of attention, in a bar full of drunken frat boys.

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 04:26 PM

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It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

Schneed10 · 05-17-2007, 04:30 PM

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That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

See my previous post. I'm with you, they're despicable. And losers.

Who wastes that much time when they're not getting what they want? If what you want is sex, and you're not getting it, move on. It means the woman doesn't get strung along, and it means the man gets to look for someone who shares his interest - a romp in the sack.

hesscl34 · 05-17-2007, 04:17 PM

bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 05-17-2007, 04:25 PM

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bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh dont generalize there my parents were married when i was born

05-17-2007, 03:33 PM	#1
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done oh, and I've faked it of course.... Every woman has done that, and feels a little guilty...

05-17-2007, 04:02 PM	#4
JoeRedskin Contains football related knowledge Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Second Star On The Right Age: 63 Posts: 10,401	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did? Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part... That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again. My only defense is that I was much younger then. __________________ Strap it up, hold onto the ball, and let’s go.

05-17-2007, 04:04 PM	#6
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done Wow. <speechless> .. and I threw up a little.

05-17-2007, 04:09 PM	#7
JoeRedskin Contains football related knowledge Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Second Star On The Right Age: 63 Posts: 10,401	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done Yeah, it was pretty shitty. I am a much better person these days. I only cheat on my wife on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the occasional Saturday morning. __________________ Strap it up, hold onto the ball, and let’s go.

05-17-2007, 04:14 PM	#8
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

05-17-2007, 04:17 PM	#14
hesscl34 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Germantown, MD Posts: 2,782	Re: What is the worst thing you've ever done bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

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