What is the worst thing you've ever done

[Lady Brave]

I've never done anything to any boyfriends, except for one nut job who said he was going to kill himself if I broke up with him. I basically told him, "been nice knowin ya and don't get any blood on the carpet."

When I was 12 I got in a fight with a boy who kept picking on a friend of mine. I stood in my driveway repeatedly punching this kid in the face and he wouldn't fight back. My only regret is that he was such a wuss.

I also kicked my brother's tooth out once. I regretted it at the time only because I thought he would beat my ass. He didn't and we laugh about it to this day.

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

oh, and I've faked it of course.... Every woman has done that, and feels a little guilty...

guys have too

[jbcjr14]

Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

guys have too

Only after many hours of drinking copius amounts of beverages that contain alcohol!

[JoeRedskin]

Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did?

Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part...

That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again.

My only defense is that I was much younger then.

[hesscl34]

Wow. <speechless> .. and I threw up a little.

[JoeRedskin]

Yeah, it was pretty shitty. I am a much better person these days. I only cheat on my wife on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the occasional Saturday morning.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did?

Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part...

That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again.

My only defense is that I was much younger then.

No defense needed. You're my friggin hero.

[hesscl34]

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by 724Skinsfan

LOL

Schneed, as high up on the intellectual respect ladder of mine that you are on, you just went down a rung. It's still pretty high but ...

You flatter me too much... this just proves I'm a big dummy!

I think I come by it honestly, I used to tell my mother that the word gullible was written on the ceiling, and she would look almost every time.

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

dont you just love men hess

[hesscl34]

bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

[JoeRedskin]

We only lie b/c we care.

[Southpaw]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It might be easier for women to figure out who the nice guys are if they didn't hand the poon to any douchebag that gives them 30 seconds of attention, in a bar full of drunken frat boys.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

[hesscl34]

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.