How long do you wait to call a girl?

[jdlea]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

Um, that's pretty much what I said to him... but I am trying to understand that in his mind it's a big deal. I'm sure he'll be fine. I was just very curious what a man's perspective would be.

Lol, was he like, "You don't understand, mom"?

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by jdlea

Lol, was he like, "You don't understand, mom"?

of course.. he's 15. I won't understand until he's married with kids. THEN he'll appreciate me!

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

even at 15 if i like you then same or next day

But I am only 19 with a 5 year long girlfriend so what do i know?

[EternalEnigma21]

Cant blame a guy for being nervous dating a girl too hot for him. Its intimidating at first, because at 15 you don't know that the dating pool is really full of wanker jerkoffs, and this chick, no matter how hot... really can't do better. She's lucky you're interested and thank god for that ass because if she didn't have it you wouldn't be interested and she'd be dating this guy, because she doesn't know any better:

[EternalEnigma21]

by the way, not to hijack, but if you are that guy, vegas wants you:

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

But I am only 19 with a 5 year long girlfriend so what do i know?

You don't worry about calling girls!!!

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by EternalEnigma21

Cant blame a guy for being nervous dating a girl too hot for him. Its intimidating at first, because at 15 you don't know that the dating pool is really full of wanker jerkoffs, and this chick, no matter how hot... really can't do better. She's lucky you're interested and thank god for that ass because if she didn't have it you wouldn't be interested and she'd be dating this guy, because she doesn't know any better:

Ohhhhh la la.. check out the lush blue s*x throw on the couch! ha ha ha

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

HUH? You don't want the girl to care if you call her or not? .... ok, that's a first.

No, you definitely misunderstood me by a mile.

I'm saying that if she likes you, she's not going to care whether you wait 5 days or 5 minutes. She's going to want to hear from you whenever you do call.

If she doesn't like you, she's also not going to care whether you wait 5 days or 5 minutes. She's not going to want to talk to you.

And if for some reason she does care about the timing of the call, you don't want to waste your time with her, because she's crazy.

[724Skinsfan]

Here's an article that is semi-relevant: She's just not that into you -- or is she?

The bottom is probably most important to the boy...

Decoding women: a primer

Wondering what women are thinking? Two experts give their translations of female body language:

• Is she licking her lips? "When a woman allows herself to feel nervously excited about the possibility of you, the ensuing physiological response can be a dry mouth and lips," says McDermott. "Women also know that licking their lips can drive men wild and certainly get their attention."

• Take a glance at her shoes. Is she crossing her legs and playfully dangling her shoe as she glances your way? If so, here's what it might mean: "She's calling attention to her legs and hoping you like what you see," explains McDermott.

• Has she touched your arm or hand? "One of the strongest signals a woman can give is a touch on the arm or hand," says Stafford. "If she does this, it's time to get her digits."

• Look for the lean. What's her posture like? If she's leaning in, you're in luck. "It's a signal that she feels safe in your presence and wants a little more of you than every other woman in the room is currently getting," says McDermott.

• Is she playing with her hair? This could mean that she wants to look good for you and is hoping you find her attractive, says Stafford.

Still confused? Maybe that's a good thing.

"I think women know it's in their best interest to keep us guessing," says Dodge. "I may be betraying my fellow men by admitting this, but we like a challenge."

[EternalEnigma21]

I always looked for dialated pupils, licking lips, playing or fixing hair, the "lean inward" and other body language, like "is she still here?... she must be interested."

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by 724Skinsfan

Here's an article that is semi-relevant: She's just not that into you -- or is she?

The bottom is probably most important to the boy...

Decoding women: a primer

Wondering what women are thinking? Two experts give their translations of female body language:

• Is she licking her lips? "When a woman allows herself to feel nervously excited about the possibility of you, the ensuing physiological response can be a dry mouth and lips," says McDermott. "Women also know that licking their lips can drive men wild and certainly get their attention."

• Take a glance at her shoes. Is she crossing her legs and playfully dangling her shoe as she glances your way? If so, here's what it might mean: "She's calling attention to her legs and hoping you like what you see," explains McDermott.

• Has she touched your arm or hand? "One of the strongest signals a woman can give is a touch on the arm or hand," says Stafford. "If she does this, it's time to get her digits."

• Look for the lean. What's her posture like? If she's leaning in, you're in luck. "It's a signal that she feels safe in your presence and wants a little more of you than every other woman in the room is currently getting," says McDermott.

• Is she playing with her hair? This could mean that she wants to look good for you and is hoping you find her attractive, says Stafford.

Still confused? Maybe that's a good thing.

"I think women know it's in their best interest to keep us guessing," says Dodge. "I may be betraying my fellow men by admitting this, but we like a challenge."

OMG.. thanks for the laugh. That is hysterical!!! ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by 724Skinsfan

Here's an article that is semi-relevant: She's just not that into you -- or is she?

The bottom is probably most important to the boy...

Decoding women: a primer

Wondering what women are thinking? Two experts give their translations of female body language:

• Is she licking her lips? "When a woman allows herself to feel nervously excited about the possibility of you, the ensuing physiological response can be a dry mouth and lips," says McDermott. "Women also know that licking their lips can drive men wild and certainly get their attention."

• Take a glance at her shoes. Is she crossing her legs and playfully dangling her shoe as she glances your way? If so, here's what it might mean: "She's calling attention to her legs and hoping you like what you see," explains McDermott.

• Has she touched your arm or hand? "One of the strongest signals a woman can give is a touch on the arm or hand," says Stafford. "If she does this, it's time to get her digits."

• Look for the lean. What's her posture like? If she's leaning in, you're in luck. "It's a signal that she feels safe in your presence and wants a little more of you than every other woman in the room is currently getting," says McDermott.

• Is she playing with her hair? This could mean that she wants to look good for you and is hoping you find her attractive, says Stafford.

Still confused? Maybe that's a good thing.

"I think women know it's in their best interest to keep us guessing," says Dodge. "I may be betraying my fellow men by admitting this, but we like a challenge."

The touching of the arm is definitely the strongest sign.

[jdlea]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

The touching of the arm is definitely the strongest sign.

Especially during a laugh

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

The touching of the arm is definitely the strongest sign.

What if she's drunk and grabs your arm to help her stand up?

[jdlea]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

What if she's drunk and grabs your arm to help her stand up?

Well, in that case, the fact that she's drunk is probably the good sign...

I am just kidding