understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

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Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Fine. F#ck this. F#ck all of this. The first few days of this thread everybody says how its not my fault. Now the last few days and this says its got to be because of me and how i'm being selfish.

So F#ck my problem and F this thread. Congrats to everyone sincerely who are happily married and get it more than once a month. I tip my hand to everybody else who says that sex dries up in marriage and thats just the way it is. If i missed anyone, let me know.

Woah! Easy now. I think you're missing what we're trying to say here. Well, I won't speak for others, but all I'm saying is-and look, we've all been there, when we "act" purely for selfish reasons-but considering what you're going through you just need to move a bit diplomatically. From everything you've described, this doesn't appear to be your fault. But this isn't just some fling we're talking about here. It's your wife. So you could dwell on whose fault it is and gettin' some tonight. But is that really all you want?