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[hesscl34]

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

dont you just love men hess

[Southpaw]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It might be easier for women to figure out who the nice guys are if they didn't hand the poon to any douchebag that gives them 30 seconds of attention, in a bar full of drunken frat boys.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by Schneed10

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

See my previous post. I'm with you, they're despicable. And losers.

Who wastes that much time when they're not getting what they want? If what you want is sex, and you're not getting it, move on. It means the woman doesn't get strung along, and it means the man gets to look for someone who shares his interest - a romp in the sack.