What is the worst thing you've ever done

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.