Advice On Women Thread.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

Per your usual, you're making a reasonable and sound argument. And I totally agree with you. But how do you know someone is marry material before you know? True, I'm not going to marry this girl but I'm not with anyone else either. So I'm kind of in no man's land.

It might not be until November before she figures out exactly where she'll end up.

Separating the emotions from the logical course of action is nearly impossible when it comes to the fairer sex, I'll admit.

Based on this post, you're kind of leaving open the possibility that she could end up being considered marriage material. I read your other post as kind of shutting the door on that, but if the door is still a bit open, by all means continue on.

I think once you know a girl is no longer an option for marriage, then it's best to move onto the next. But if you're in no man's land for a month, a few months, a few more months, a year... after enough time goes by you should know whether you want to marry her. If you stay stuck in no man's land then it's a sign.

But hey, sounds like you got some time left to figure it out. Of course she could leave and break your heart, but is that really the worst thing in the world? Hurts for a time, but it wouldn't hurt your chances of finding another future Mrs. 12th down the line. If the door is still open, give it a go.