Advice On Women Thread.

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by djnemo65

Here's my opinion 12th, for what it's worth: big picture she's leaving the country, little picture she's dating other guys. Seems extremely unlikely to me that this is the girl you will marry. You went into it with ground rules which she unfortunately seems to be adhering to. At this point, the best thing you can do is fall back. Let her think on things. Give yourself a chance to think to.

The worst thing you can do imo is be too available, to let her think that she's got you in the pocket and can always fall back on you if things don't work out with asshole du jour. Break off contact, be a little bit detached when you talk to her, and probably one of two things will happen...she'll realize she's been taking you for advantage...or she won't. Either way, you get to keep doing what you do best, which is big balling in big 12 world.

She's totally not marrying material. But she's definitely like or in love material, you know what I mean? I'm somewhere in between. Not totally in love, but a little more than just like.

She's giving a short speech tomorrow in here in D.C. and asked if I was coming (pardon the pun) to support her. I said yes but that I was cutting out early before things ended. I think if I can stick to the 2/per week rule she'll get the message.