understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[mredskins]

This thread and the advice is going down hill fast.

Yes porn is definitely the answer to your issue. eyes roll

[KLHJ2]

Originally Posted by mredskins

This thread and the advice is going down hill fast.

Yes porn is definitely the answer to your issue. eyes roll

I could make your head roll if you think that would help.

[MonkFan4Life]

Originally Posted by mredskins

This thread and the advice is going down hill fast.

Yes porn is definitely the answer to your issue. eyes roll

YouTube - Your testicles and you

[MTK]

Hey nothing wrong with a once or twice per week, especially if you've been in a long-term relationship. There are plenty of reasons why the sex life takes a dip after marriage. It's not rocket science. Kids, careers, hobbies, priorities, etc.

[KLHJ2]

BTW, I was just kidding mredskins.

I thought that this was appropriate.


Man comes into a bank wearing a ski mask.
He goes up to the counter, takes out a gun, points it at the teller and says, “This is a robbery”.
She quietly says, “Sir, this isn’t a regular bank. This is a sperm bank.”
“Just do what I tell you. Grab one of those bottles behind you.”
“Sir, those are bottles of sperm!”
He points his gun at her, “Pick it up and drink it.”
She has no choice so she takes off the cap and drinks the sperm.
The gunman looks at her, pulls off his mask and it’s her husband, “Now, was that so difficult…!”

[Monkeydad]

^ I agree, but there's a little more going on than that.

[SolidSnake84]

I can chalk it up to all the problems being on me....or caused by me.

I just want to know what it is besides my annoying habits, which i will explain if anyone wants to know

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

I can chalk it up to all the problems being on me....or caused by me.

I just want to know what it is besides my annoying habits, which i will explain if anyone wants to know

Wait, so now it's all your fault?

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Wait, so now it's all your fault?

Im saying as a man, i can accept that it is something caused by me, because i dont want to believe that she is not interested in me like that anymore.

[CRedskinsRule]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

I can chalk it up to all the problems being on me....or caused by me.

I just want to know what it is besides my annoying habits, which i will explain if anyone wants to know

Well my divorce certainly was caused by two people, not just one or the other. My point before, was that if you want to resolve the situation, maybe you need to look at your actions as well as hers. If you are going to simply say yes I have annoying habits, but then blanket disregard them by making a sweeping declaration, then you will not succeed in making it work.

[saden1]

what are your annoying habits?

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by saden1

what are your annoying habits?

Ok guys please dont laugh at me because i'm being brutally honest here:

she doesnt like her face being touched. I cup her chin sometimes to be playful.

I grab her butt when she isnt paying attention, and sometimes it makes her mad.

I have a habitually negative demeanor sometimes; i can be too overdramatic. For example, yesterday i was describing our recent drought (weather wise, not sex lol) to a neighbor, and i was telling him how lucky we were for the rain, because "people were near death" in my own words. Sometimes i say things like that and i honestly cant help it. it is so random.

[Monkeydad]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

yesterday i was describing our recent drought (weather wise, not sex lol) to a neighbor, and i was telling him how lucky we were for the rain, because "people were near death" in my own words.

What? :confused-

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by Buster

What? :confused-

There is a big time water shortage here. A few people that live nearby has lost their wells. Before this past weekend, our area hadnt seen any rain in almost 3 months. There were water restrictions and a neighbor guy has to go take a shower at his mothers because he lost his well.

And i said people were "near death" because they were losing everything cause of the drought....water, crops, etc....

[saden1]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Ok guys please dont laugh at me because i'm being brutally honest here:

she doesnt like her face being touched. I cup her chin sometimes to be playful.

I grab her butt when she isnt paying attention, and sometimes it makes her mad.

I have a habitually negative demeanor sometimes; i can be too overdramatic. For example, yesterday i was describing our recent drought (weather wise, not sex lol) to a neighbor, and i was telling him how lucky we were for the rain, because "people were near death" in my own words. Sometimes i say things like that and i honestly cant help it. it is so random.

Is she wearing makeup when you're touching her face? I can see how she wouldn't like that. Also some women don't like their chines touched because they think it will cause them to breakout (I've knew a chick like that). Garbing your wife's butt OK...that's your wife, not some random chick.

Try to cut down on things that annoy her but if everything you do annoys her it's time to jet. Do you, be you.