understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[Monkeydad]

Success in a relationship is usually found when both parties compromise and are willing to listen to the other's feelings....usually...

[DynamiteRave]

Originally Posted by Buster

Success in a relationship is usually found when both parties compromise and are willing to listen to the other's feelings....usually...

This is a great, great comic strip. lol

[firstdown]

This is what you need.

YouTube - Atlanta Rhythm Section 1978 Imaginary Lover

[12thMan]

Solid, bro you need to come to D.C. and hang out man. We'll get you all straightened out brother. I mean if you want to. I'm not trying to wreck your deal, but if you need to get...you know...we'll take care of you in D.C.

[Monkeydad]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

Solid, bro you need to come to D.C. and hang out man. We'll get you all straightened out brother. I mean if you want to. I'm not trying to wreck your deal, but if you need to get...you know...we'll take care of you in D.C.

Are you inviting him for some swingers action? Sure sounds like it.

What does the name 12thMan really mean?

[GMScud]

Originally Posted by Buster

Are you inviting him for some swingers action? Sure sounds like it.

What does the name 12thMan really mean?

LMFAO!!! Hahaha

[MonkFan4Life]

I remember when my wife and I were at the edge and things were not too good between us. We went out to dinner and had a talk. A nice long talk. We kept it from turning into an argument but we knew that by the time we went to sleep that we would get out what was on our mind first. Take her out somewhere so you all can talk. Don't show any anger just talk to her and let her know that you want you all to last but for you all to last you can't live in this limbo that you are in now. Ask her out on a date off some old young kids in love kinda thing. Take her out just to talk, or cook dinner at home with the candles and all but let her know you don't want to get it in. Just talk and spend time with her.

The key is to start a dialogue.

[Monkeydad]

SS84 - Apparently, all of your answers are in the ads above this thread. Some involve counseling and talking, along with hormone therapy and a new razor.

[Dirtbag59]

Originally Posted by Buster

SS84 - Apparently, all of your answers are in the ads above this thread. Some involve counseling and talking, along with hormone therapy and a new razor.

That's inspired me to try a little experiment right here and now.

Man, if only there was a website where I could buy pogs and milkcaps. That sure would be swell. I would get the slammer and anything.

Then I would need to learn how to pickup chicks. However there's no website around that I can find to teach me. Man I really want to be a ladies man and have no fear of rejection.

I'd also like to learn secrets for World of Warcraft. Yeah, that would help me learn how to pickup chicks.

[skinsfan69]

sounds like she either doesn't love you anymore or is having an affiar. if i were you i'd leave. why be married to a cold fish? there are too many other women out there that will give you what you want. just my .02.

[Dirtbag59]

I will say this if you decide to stay together then consider sleeping in separate rooms. It really isn't that big of a deal anymore as it seems more and more couples are doing it. You made a comment about how your wife doesn't like to be touched when she's sleeping so if anything this should at least help the both of you get some sleep. Doesn't mean you can't cuddle sometimes or anything like that instead it just helps both of you get some space.

Plus you don't have to worry so much about waking up your partner, covers being unevenly distributed, or snoring.

Anyway this explains it better:
Should Couples Sleep in Separate Beds? - DivineCaroline

Still there's a part of me that strongly suspects she's having an affair. Part of me wants to say that I don't want to scare you but this story seems to be a little to close to your situation.
I no longer want to have sex with my husband

[SolidSnake84]

Ok guys. Today is the big day...The monthly woman problems have came to the end, and i'm going for it tonight. Tonight is the night to end all of these problems. I'm either going to be successful or I'm going down in a blaze of glory. WP brothers and sisters, pray for my soul.

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Ok guys. Today is the big day...The monthly woman problems have came to the end, and i'm going for it tonight. Tonight is the night to end all of these problems. I'm either going to be successful or I'm going down in a blaze of glory. WP brothers and sisters, pray for my soul.

Thinking of all the what ifs, and could be's, and dos and donts have driven me mad. I'm just convinced that if I can get it done today, then everything will be back to normal....

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Thinking of all the what ifs, and could be's, and dos and donts have driven me mad. I'm just convinced that if I can get it done today, then everything will be back to normal....

Make sure you tell her that now that she's done being in agony the last few days, your only goal tonight is to get some for yourself so you can rest easy this weekend...the ladies looooove that

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Make sure you tell her that now that she's done being in agony the last few days, your only goal tonight is to get some for yourself so you can rest easy this weekend...the ladies looooove that

Brilliant. I was trying to think of the right to put it.

You just go for what you want and damn the consequences SS84 - it's plan sure to succeed!