understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[SolidSnake84]

Ok guys. Today is the big day...The monthly woman problems have came to the end, and i'm going for it tonight. Tonight is the night to end all of these problems. I'm either going to be successful or I'm going down in a blaze of glory. WP brothers and sisters, pray for my soul.

[KLHJ2]

My god, the plot is worse than a teen movie.

I wish you luck. To help you out I have provided an instructional video demonstrating what you need to say.

[SolidSnake84]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Ok guys. Today is the big day...The monthly woman problems have came to the end, and i'm going for it tonight. Tonight is the night to end all of these problems. I'm either going to be successful or I'm going down in a blaze of glory. WP brothers and sisters, pray for my soul.

Thinking of all the what ifs, and could be's, and dos and donts have driven me mad. I'm just convinced that if I can get it done today, then everything will be back to normal....

[MonkFan4Life]

Just let Rick Damone tell you how to getit done

YouTube - Fasttimes at Ridgemont High - Damone attitude scene

[MonkFan4Life]

The five point plan. Vid sucks bit the lessons are lifechanging !

YouTube - Dumone's 5 Point Plan

[CRedskinsRule]

Not to be a Debbie Downer, but this is one of those areas where built up pressures tend to result in colossal failures. Honestly, if there is any hesitation on her side, could you imagine how she will feel knowing "today is the day". Why not do more of a 3 day plan leading up to the weekend. Cuddle her today, then tomorrow expect to be shot down, but throw a softball type proposition out, and then Friday set the stage for a run amok weekend with midget strippers and everything!

I may be against the grain, but I think you need to let up on your part of the obsessing over it.

[MonkFan4Life]

CR you are actually right. Or at least I think so. She know's that she's off now and that the HOV lane is open. The only thing is should you take it or just stay on themain highway. Let it be, don't try and let the day be what it is. IF asking for sex causes and issue why tempt fate ? I know that you should get it because it's what she signed on for whenyou all got married but you also signed on to deal with teh bullshit whenever it comes along. So let it go. Honestly I went for about 3 weeks without asking for sex and even when she felt that something was wrong and asked me for it I turned it down. Believe me it was hard but sooner or later she went ahead and rapped on the mic and I couldn't turn it down. You've got to play her game. She kept saying no so don;t try anymore. She'll come around. Like I said before,...PATIENCE is the key.

[12thMan]

Solid, sending goood vibes your way my man. And if things don't work out, hell, next time you're in D.C. we'll have a few rounds Good luck!

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by CRedskinsRule

Not to be a Debbie Downer, but this is one of those areas where built up pressures tend to result in colossal failures. Honestly, if there is any hesitation on her side, could you imagine how she will feel knowing "today is the day". Why not do more of a 3 day plan leading up to the weekend. Cuddle her today, then tomorrow expect to be shot down, but throw a softball type proposition out, and then Friday set the stage for a run amok weekend with midget strippers and everything!

I may be against the grain, but I think you need to let up on your part of the obsessing over it.

Nope. Not against the grain. It's like he is intent on pissing her off and ignoring the underlying issues.

[firstdown]

Originally Posted by CRedskinsRule

Not to be a Debbie Downer, but this is one of those areas where built up pressures tend to result in colossal failures. Honestly, if there is any hesitation on her side, could you imagine how she will feel knowing "today is the day". Why not do more of a 3 day plan leading up to the weekend. Cuddle her today, then tomorrow expect to be shot down, but throw a softball type proposition out, and then Friday set the stage for a run amok weekend with midget strippers and everything!

I may be against the grain, but I think you need to let up on your part of the obsessing over it.

THREE DAY PLAN. Hell I have like a 3 minute plan at best and if that does not work I know to just give it up.

I also have the fool proof plane that is dinner, wine, roaring fire, but thats our once a month night so its a given then.

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

Thinking of all the what ifs, and could be's, and dos and donts have driven me mad. I'm just convinced that if I can get it done today, then everything will be back to normal....

Make sure you tell her that now that she's done being in agony the last few days, your only goal tonight is to get some for yourself so you can rest easy this weekend...the ladies looooove that

[SolidSnake84]

Fine. F#ck this. F#ck all of this. The first few days of this thread everybody says how its not my fault. Now the last few days and this says its got to be because of me and how i'm being selfish.

So F#ck my problem and F this thread. Congrats to everyone sincerely who are happily married and get it more than once a month. I tip my hand to everybody else who says that sex dries up in marriage and thats just the way it is. If i missed anyone, let me know.

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Make sure you tell her that now that she's done being in agony the last few days, your only goal tonight is to get some for yourself so you can rest easy this weekend...the ladies looooove that

Brilliant. I was trying to think of the right to put it.

You just go for what you want and damn the consequences SS84 - it's plan sure to succeed!

[JoeRedskin]

Don't forget to crank the Led Zeppelin as you put your patented never fail moves on!

[firstdown]

Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

Don't forget to crank the Led Zeppelin as you put your patented never fail moves on!

Thats Barry White for us older guys.