understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

Dirtbag59 · 08-19-2010, 02:29 AM

Is it just me or does anyone else hear this song in their head whenever they read this thread?

warpaint · 08-19-2010, 04:42 AM

Try sending her some roses to her work with a card some candies or ballons. But in your card. put it all on the line how she is so cold emotionally and physically and how you are so torn apart that she hasnt responed to any of your past moves. Just dont come off like an a-hole. I'm sure their will be some gals acting like AWWW!! I wish someone would send me something like that.

Stay strong and you just follow your heart. Stay or go just look at all the signs they are their for a reason. Good Luck Bro.

SolidSnake84 · 08-19-2010, 07:12 AM

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

firstdown · 08-19-2010, 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

So you guys took 2 min having sex and 35 min. talking about it. Seems about right.

TheMalcolmConnection · 08-19-2010, 08:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SolidSnake84

This is Snake.

Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going.

It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month.

There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again.

Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely.

Awesome. At least you both got it out in the open and know it's both people have work to do.

You got some. I'm so happy for you...

htownskinfan · 08-19-2010, 07:42 AM

:headbange:goodjob :

MonkFan4Life · 08-19-2010, 07:47 AM

YouTube - Kool & The Gang - Celebration

WELL HOT DAMN !!!!!

SolidSnake84 · 08-19-2010, 07:57 AM

Yeah i feel like a new man. I wanna apologize to my friends on here that I lashed out at during the worst parts of the drought. Officially it lasted 37 days. Thanks guys again.

LOL at the Kool and the Gang song. It just fits so perfectly haha

BleedBurgundy · 08-19-2010, 08:51 AM

The Warpath, saving more marriages than Dr. Phil.

Gmanc711 · 08-19-2010, 10:18 AM

SS, I'm happy for you man....

But is anyone else kind of sad that this thread will be over?

MTK · 08-19-2010, 10:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gmanc711

SS, I'm happy for you man....

But is anyone else kind of sad that this thread will be over?

Not at all.

SmootSmack · 08-19-2010, 10:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gmanc711

SS, I'm happy for you man....

Thanks....but neither of us were in the mood last night

Monkeydad · 08-19-2010, 10:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Thanks....but neither of us were in the mood last night

The next thread...

DynamiteRave · 08-19-2010, 10:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gmanc711

SS, I'm happy for you man....

But is anyone else kind of sad that this thread will be over?

I bumped the jsarno thread for a reason, you know?

Monkeydad · 08-19-2010, 10:20 AM

Who says it's over...maybe now we can track another drought from day 1.

Hopefully not, but women are unpredictable.

08-19-2010, 02:29 AM	#1
Dirtbag59 Naega jeil jal naga Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Atlanta, Georgia From: Silver Spring, Maryland Age: 40 Posts: 14,750	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? Is it just me or does anyone else hear this song in their head whenever they read this thread? __________________ "It's nice to be important, but its more important to be nice." - Scooter "I feel like Dirtbag has been slowly and methodically trolling the board for a month or so now." - FRPLG

08-19-2010, 04:42 AM	#2
warpaint The Starter Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: The Great State of Texas Posts: 1,022	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? Try sending her some roses to her work with a card some candies or ballons. But in your card. put it all on the line how she is so cold emotionally and physically and how you are so torn apart that she hasnt responed to any of your past moves. Just dont come off like an a-hole. I'm sure their will be some gals acting like AWWW!! I wish someone would send me something like that. Stay strong and you just follow your heart. Stay or go just look at all the signs they are their for a reason. Good Luck Bro. __________________ "Not only do you get a 1st down, but you get a whole new set of downs" John Madden

08-19-2010, 07:12 AM	#3
SolidSnake84 Playmaker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Stephens City, VA Posts: 2,953	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? This is Snake. Without a deep explanation, everything went as planned last night. She came to me when work was over, and things went from there. Afterwards, we talked for about 35 mins. Basically, conflicting work schedules, the fact that sometimes i can be a jerk, and a few other things explained the drought. Many nights the desire was there but she was just too tired to get anything going. It appears to be over. She told me first thing this morning before i left for work that she would be waiting for me, in a sly kind of way. She deeply deeply apologized for what had happened. Because of our communication problem, i dont think she realized how paranoid i had grown over the past month. There was nothing that happened in Florida bad. It was just when she got home, it was back to the late shifts and thats where the problem happened. I have promised to be more vocal about things to hope that this doesn't happen again. Last night could have just been a 1 shot thing, so i'll be paying attention closely. __________________ Time to nut up or shut up

08-19-2010, 07:42 AM	#6
htownskinfan JUST LIVIN Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: houston,tx Age: 64 Posts: 4,935	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? :headbange:goodjob : __________________ Make The Redskins Great Again

08-19-2010, 07:47 AM	#7
MonkFan4Life The Starter Join Date: Mar 2006 Age: 49 Posts: 1,851	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? YouTube - Kool & The Gang - Celebration WELL HOT DAMN !!!!! __________________ Catch me on YouTube ! http://www.youtube.com/user/DowntimeRB?feature=mhw5 The "punishment" by the league : "It's like getting a ticket for going too fast on a road a week ago and they changed the speed limit today"

08-19-2010, 07:57 AM	#8
SolidSnake84 Playmaker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Stephens City, VA Posts: 2,953	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? Yeah i feel like a new man. I wanna apologize to my friends on here that I lashed out at during the worst parts of the drought. Officially it lasted 37 days. Thanks guys again. LOL at the Kool and the Gang song. It just fits so perfectly haha __________________ Time to nut up or shut up

08-19-2010, 08:51 AM	#9
BleedBurgundy Playmaker Join Date: Feb 2004 Posts: 4,471	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? The Warpath, saving more marriages than Dr. Phil. __________________ "All natural institutions of churches, whether Jewish, Christian, or Turkish, appear to me no other than human inventions, set up to terrify and enslave mankind, and monopolize power and profit." Thomas Paine

08-19-2010, 10:18 AM	#10
Gmanc711 Thank You, Sean. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Gaithersburg, MD Age: 40 Posts: 7,506	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? SS, I'm happy for you man.... But is anyone else kind of sad that this thread will be over? __________________ #21

08-19-2010, 10:20 AM	#15
Monkeydad Living Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: PA Age: 47 Posts: 17,460	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? Who says it's over...maybe now we can track another drought from day 1. Hopefully not, but women are unpredictable. __________________ Not sent from a Droid, iPhone, Blackberry or toaster

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