Fed up...need advice!

[BDBohnzie]

(I noticed your wife was a HR Director, so please excuse me if I repeat some of the things she's advised you to do)

while the monster.com thing didn't work, check out the Denver newspapers websites and see what job listings they have there. I know the Washington Post here has a very good job database of which to look at local jobs.

Once you find a few positions you are looking at, go to the company's website and apply through them. A lot of times, job sites do not update their database quickly enough, and jobs you may have applied to through Monster may not be available anymore. Usually the company will list exactly how they want information from their applicants. And once you apply, follow up with a phone call and describe your situation, especially since you are looking to relocate, a phone call will help explain.

I also believe there are companies that specialize in helping people find jobs as they relocate. Look into those as well.

Good luck in your quest to move to Denver...