Advice On Women Thread.

[GhettoDogAllStars]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

Now we've broken things off, but remain very much in each other's space and talk all the time. The reason we decided to break things off is because we both agreed that if the other wanted to date someone else and it got serious, we would stop end it and stop having sex. I've since created more rules to keep my heart from being broken. I don't want to talk to her more than twice a week, but she's not complying. She finds a reason to text, email, call or we see each other at friends house. She's been seeing some asshole for two weeks, and it didn't work out. So here we are.

You can't be in this kind of relationship with someone you have feelings for. So, either tell her that, or just let it go.

[over the mountain]

FD watch what you type my friend, you know better. she drinks miller lite, doesnt have a beer belly.

[firstdown]

Originally Posted by over the mountain

FD watch what you type my friend, you know better. she drinks miller lite, doesnt have a beer belly.

You do know I was joking? We need pics to confrim.

[KLHJ2]

My advice is F**k her. When you get done F***ing her, then F**k her again. Wash rinse repeat. You F**k her as many times as you possibly can before she leaves. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Screw all the rules about not wanting to get too attached or whatever. You are already losing her, why punish yourself even more? You ride that chick like the ride that is getting shut down at the amusement park.

When she is gone, then you move on. Until then you should be unloading white ink all over her splat tat. I don't care if she is seeing somebody else because unless he is going with her it is not serious and you were there first.

[saden1]

Originally Posted by Angry

My advice is F**k her. When you get done F***ing her, then F**k her again. Wash rinse repeat. You F**k her as many times as you possibly can before she leaves. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Screw all the rules about not wanting to get too attached or whatever. You are already losing her, why punish yourself even more? You ride that chick like the ride that is getting shut down at the amusement park.

When she is gone, then you move on. Until then you should be unloading white ink all over her splat tat. I don't care if she is seeing somebody else because unless he is going with her it is not serious and you were there first.

LOL...Preach on brother Angry, preach on.

[12thMan]

Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.

Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!

So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.

Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.

[Slingin Sammy 33]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

She was kicking and screaming bloody murder and said how I changed my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by Slingin Sammy 33

Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty

Except this is one of the first chicks that I've met that thinks like a guy. I do feel much better about completely shutting it down.

[tryfuhl]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.

Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!

So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.

Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.

Well it sounds like she likes you a bit too but isn't in a rush to get serious.. either that or she just wants you around when it's convenient.

Never make somebody a priority if you are only an option to them. That may not fit in your case but you'll know if it does or doesn't. The whole limit to 2 days a week thing is kind of silly and childish though. I get your reasoning for it but I mean say you're both bored and there's something good to do but you've already used your 2 days up that week? It's not like it's a meal ticket broseidon. Just go with the flow and if it becomes too difficult just tell her you found somebody more in tune with yourself whether or not you have if you can't just break it off completely.

[12thMan]

Her reason for wanting to maintain normal contact is that she considers this a special and unique friendship. I deflected to one of our mutual female friends and she said that I know her better and I'm always the first person she calls. She acknowledged that this is selfish on her part, but she's standing firm that this isn't fair.

Basically this all sounds like the dick in the glass routine by Chris Rock. Except I went from friend to lover and now back to friend.

Anyway, that's where things are for now. We're not going to speak unless we run into each other or it's a life changing decision she's making. We'll see.

To be continued...

[firstdown]

I'm confused.

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by firstdown

I'm confused.

Join the club.

[KLHJ2]

Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". You're right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?

[Trample the Elderly]

Originally Posted by Angry

Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". Your'e right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?

I know? WTF?

[Schneed10]

Yeah, color me completely confused. I'm with her, why in the world do you need a month or two off? What does that even mean? Why not just break up?

12th, you're starting to sound like a woman.