What is the worst thing you've ever done

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh dont generalize there my parents were married when i was born

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by Schneed10

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

We only lie b/c we care.

that is true

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by EARTHQUAKE2689

that is true

what kind of twisted crap is that? you lie because you care? about what? not getting caught?

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.

If a guy is willing to work that hard just to swipe the poon, he's more than just despicable, he's a loser. As soon as he realizes he's going to have to work that hard, he should just move on to the next target. I mean how hot is the sex going to be if you have to wear them down with persistence?

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by Schneed10

If a guy is willing to work that hard just to swipe the poon, he's more than just despicable, he's a loser. As soon as he realizes he's going to have to work that hard, he should just move on to the next target. I mean how hot is the sex going to be if you have to wear them down with persistence?

.... I'm lost..

[Southpaw]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.

Yeah, those guys are assholes. The sad part is it's usually older guys(older than college age), that do it, and they tend to target women that are in a vulnerable positions like just out of a relationship/marriage, etc.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

See my previous post. I'm with you, they're despicable. And losers.

Who wastes that much time when they're not getting what they want? If what you want is sex, and you're not getting it, move on. It means the woman doesn't get strung along, and it means the man gets to look for someone who shares his interest - a romp in the sack.

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

what kind of twisted crap is that? you lie because you care? about what? not getting caught?

I was joking. Chill.

[Schneed10]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

.... I'm lost..

I mean to say that guys will lie to get in your pants on a one night stand, that's pretty normal guy behavior. You have to expect that and guard yourself against it (unless you want a one nighter).

But the guys who are willing to put in weeks of time lying to you and acting like they love you and they're interested, just to get a piece off you? They're losers. If they have to spend that much time, they're pathetic anyway, and you're better off without them.

[hesscl34]

Some guys love the chase. It turns them on. Then as soon as they get it... their interest in the woman is lost becuase the chase is over. Lots of guys are that way. Their egos rule their actions.

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.

I simply don't know what to say about that one. I have never met a guy that would put that much effort into, essentially, a one night stand.

Ehhh, you probably just were a bad screw and he went looking for something better. (Before you lose it --- IT'S A JOKE).

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

Some guys love the chase. It turns them on. Then as soon as they get it... their interest in the woman is lost becuase the chase is over. Lots of guys are that way. Their egos rule their actions.

Sorry, guys like that just seem like posers to me. I would have thought they would be easy to spot. Perhaps the women is so caught up in "being chased" she doesn't actually take a look at who is chasing her. God knows I have met more than one woman who just loved being the "chasee".

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by JoeRedskin

I simply don't know what to say about that one. I have never met a guy that would put that much effort into, essentially, a one night stand.

Ehhh, you probably just were a bad screw and he went looking for something better. (Before you lose it --- IT'S A JOKE).

I'm so freakin hot I could lay there and not move and STILL be a good screw... ... LOL

[JoeRedskin]

Originally Posted by hesscl34

I'm so freakin hot I could lay there and not move and STILL be a good screw... ... LOL

Well, for it to actually count as a "good screw", you're "partner" has to be something other than a cucumber.