understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[MonkFan4Life]

I remember when my wife and I were at the edge and things were not too good between us. We went out to dinner and had a talk. A nice long talk. We kept it from turning into an argument but we knew that by the time we went to sleep that we would get out what was on our mind first. Take her out somewhere so you all can talk. Don't show any anger just talk to her and let her know that you want you all to last but for you all to last you can't live in this limbo that you are in now. Ask her out on a date off some old young kids in love kinda thing. Take her out just to talk, or cook dinner at home with the candles and all but let her know you don't want to get it in. Just talk and spend time with her.

The key is to start a dialogue.